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tomorrow i go to North Dakota and theres this boy who likes me and i like him. hes going too and i was talking to him on AIM and hes wondering if i am planning a kiss and he asked me if i like kissing or making out better and ice never done either i really like him but i think hes moving to fast for me. I might want to kiss him but im not sure HELP ME : [

He told me making out is well. fun which kinda scares me too because i dont want to believe it hes soo nice and soo sweet. : [ And im pretty sure were going out he never officially asked me out but the signs are all there.
P. S im 12 for those who are wondering

Answer 1

He probably looks like a donkey.

Answer 2

Sure he's pushy and a tad rude. His respect for you seems suspect while his motives are blatantly crass and ill mannered. This kind of conversation is hardly appropriate for him to be having with you and it makes you look like you're only good for one thing while making him look like an idiot for bringing it up. How long have you been talking to him and is he someone you met on the net? Seems like he's getting you primed fot the big meeting in Dakota. Seeing that he's only thinking about his own interests and putting you on the spot then your first thought is right on. Namely, he is moving too fast while disregarding you as a person who has something more to offer than being a toy for his own selfish wants and desires. Hopefully you won't be a push over for him and consider how much you really like him now that he's brought all this out in the open and dumped it all on you. It's for certain that you aren't sure how to react to his little plan and you're not to blame either. You need to wonder if he's worth it as a person to be doing anything at all with you let alone thinking he has a right to even consider getting physically close to you. Kiss him? He needs a good slap up side his thick skull for being so presumptous by infringing on you like this. To assume that you have a preference "kissing or making out"! Wow, what a guy! He's a keeper this one is; sure to be a real delight determined to fill your life with awe and wonder. Well you ought to be wondering some things about him but not in the way he says he is wondering about you.
Seriously, believe that you're far better than this guy and any of the other lame brains that will try and put themselves off on you like this. Don't fall for his games or his tricks or his words. Think that when he's through with having his fun with you, you'll still have to answer to yourself.

Answer 3

If you think it's moving to fast, then put on the breaks. You don't have to kiss him if you do not want to. He may not like it, but if he likes you and respects you he will understand. Just tell him you like him a lot, but you just want to move a little slower. That you want to kiss him, but you want to make sure it's the right time. That way he knows you do care about him, but you also are not ready. It is OK to be inexperienced we all are at some point in time. I wouldn't let that worry you any. If you want to just give him one good kiss but not for very long. ether way you should make sure you are ready before you do something.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Be honest with him. Tell him that you like him but he's moving too fast for you and you're not sure if you're ready to kiss him, let alone make out with him. It's also okay to let him know that you're not very experienced. You don't have to be embarassed about that.

I gotta ask, how old are you? It doesn't really matter, I'm just curious. Best of luck!

Answer 6

He sounds like he's only looking for fun if he's asking about making out. It's always best when the kissing just happens, and isn't planned. If you really like him, go for it but if you're uncomfortable, tell him to stop and leave. GOOD LUCK! And don't do anything you don't want to.

Answer 7

Tell him the truth, that you've never kissed and want it to be special. If he TRULY RESPECTS you, he will start by being your friend, then move on slowly from there. Do NOT let him pressure you into some hot make-out session, because it sounds to me like it will just go from that to telling everybody about it and then never talking to you again.

Answer 8

If a guy asks you which one you prefer over the other than he's only got one thing on his mind and clearly he is rooting for 2nd base. Trust your instints and make sure you want HIM to be the guy you do either with before making that decision. You have to live with it. Good luck.

Answer 9

do what you feel is comfortable. you can kiss him if you want but just let it be a short kiss. tell him you like him a lot but dont want to move too fast.

Answer 10

Play it cool. Just don't rush into anything. You can control the tempo so play it up when you know you are ready to kiss or something, but don't be afraid to say no if he tries to go farther than you are ready to go.

Answer 11

Don't put so much high hopes for this trip or you will feel deeply disapointed. Try not to pressure yourself too much and just enjoy the trip instead. Go with the flow and follow your heart.