Alright there is this girl that was so lovely and pretty . I met her last year in class. Lol it was the first day of class and I saw her and my heart was racing. Love at first site. She sat right behind me I couldn't even pay attention to the teacher. Well so eventually we started chatting. I started asking around about her, and I learned she hung with the druggies. She smokes weed, drinks and has done alot of other things. She is also an athiest. I was stunned, I am about as straitlaced as you can get. I saw her in a different light, but my feelings didn't go away. I remember I was out of school for 2 days and she was the only one who was worried about me and checked up on me. ( outside my family). I eventually transfered out ( for other reasons). And I stopped talking to her, And things got bad because for some reason I didn't accept the request to be her myspace friend, and I think she just thaught that I wanted to get in her pants. I really liked her though, and I ***** it up.
2007-07-05 14:53:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU didn't mess it up. If you accidentally declined her MySpace request I would just ask her to re-request it, or you can find her page and request her to be your friend.
But this sounds like a lose-lose situation to me. If somebody doesn't feel that the life they are living is wrong, then there will always be tention in the relationship. Regarding drugs and loser friends, she has to make the decision to change her life, and then, and ONLY then, could you pursue a healthy relationship with her. In the meantime, you're young, and there's lots of time, so just be her friend.
2007-07-05 14:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain why you didn't accept the request to be her MySpace friend. (That's probably one of the reasons she thinks you were just trying to get into her pants; if she thought you were genuine, she probably figures you would've made her your MySpace friend.) Then just try to have a serious conversation with her. Tell her how much it meant to her when she checked up on you when you were out of school. Tell her how you feel about her. Then see how she responds and move from there.
2007-07-05 21:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.... I'd be pretty pissed off if I was her. But I would probably also accept an apology. It takes alot to step up and say you're wrong.
Email her, say you're sorry, tell her you were a jackass, and hope she forgives you.
On the other hand.... if she is into drugs and other things that you are not doing, you may want to just leave it be. You don't want to just run around and hurt people on purpose, but sometimes the accidental times work out for the best too.
Good Luck.
2007-07-05 22:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by crankyissues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you F U C K E D it up. Well at the same time prob better that way in her world there is trouble and durgs. Do you still want to date a girl that is envolved in that sort of things even if she comes clean that if she ever does. You both have live in totaly diffenet worlds. But you never know where your life takes you it might of worked out.
2007-07-05 22:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg myspace... are you for real, your worried because of myspace. Get her e-mail and explain things to her.. the reasons you had to transfer out and your mistake on myspace (Lol) and tell her your true feelings about her... she'll most likely understand, just tell her your true feelings.. maybe get a coffee... dont' worry if you explain things truthfully and with heart things should work out :)
2007-07-05 22:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tan Tan! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't **** it up. Deep down inside you know she's not the right one. And the reason why you continue to NOT let her in your life is because you don't want to cheat yourself out of a good thing by getting involve with a bad thing. Seriously she surrounds herself with negatives, and you TRULY are not one. That's why it's not meant to be.
Hope this helps.
Good Luck
2007-07-05 22:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by MsCuRvy0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be alright as long as you call her or talk to her in person, and explain to her your feelings, dont do that on myspace its not..romantic. Tell her how you feel and that you didnt just "want to get in her pants". You should be fine.
2007-07-05 21:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MURunnerJ 's answer says it all!!!!! Have you told her how you feel? Who cares if she is an atheistic pot-head. If you really like her then say so or move on. She might like you and if you don't speak up you will miss out on a potentially wonderful experience or the love of your life.
2007-07-05 22:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by NAUGRIM_Giant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first, if she is a druggie, you ar better off. But why not send her a friend request, and send her a note that you accidentaly refused the friend request?
2007-07-05 21:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by lonepanther2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So find her on myspace and fix it? Doesn't sound like it should be too hard to do. Take care.
2007-07-05 21:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by MamaBear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋