2007-07-05 14:51:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends how old YOU are, sweetie.
2007-07-05 14:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by "bad" and what you mean by "like." When I was 13, I had a huge crush on Bon Jovi-- I think he was 25. :)
If you mean, is it WRONG to DATE someone 6 years older than you, this depends on your age. If you're 30 years old, then no, it's fine. If you're 13, it's very, very wrong. Why? Because the simple truth is that a 13-year-old is still a child and a 19-year-old is an adult. There are a LOT of changes yet to occur with you mentally and emotionally over the next 6 years. (Just think of how much you've changed mentally since you were 7. See what I mean?) You two --regardless of what you might think-- are NOT on the same wavelength, if one of you is of legal age and the other is not.
If you are both over the age of 18, then there is nothing wrong with this. By that time, you'll both have matured. (I hope.)
2007-07-05 15:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are. If you are 14 then yes it is bad. If you are over 20 then no it isnt. The older you get, the less significant 6 yrs will become. Most women are with men that are about 2 yrs older anyways so what is another 4.
2007-07-05 14:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and days that's becoming more and more common. It's not bad if you guys are both adults. Sometimes younger people will be attracted to an older man/woman. You might think you're in love but maybe it's just that your so young and you confuse someone talking nice to you with love. If you don't think he's that type of guy, I would go for it but be careful. It's best to go out with someone in your age group unless your an adult.
2007-07-05 14:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by ugotheanswers? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. The younger you are the more comfortable you might be with someone closer to your age. Someone that much older may end up acting like a parent. Is that what you want?
2007-07-05 14:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny Days 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's fine as long as you are both of legal age. I have 2 friends that got married. She was 26 and he was...53. Now that's an age difference. They are happy together and have a child, now. So no 6 years is fine. Heck I'm 28 and dated a woman that was 44. She was beautiful, of course she looked like she was 30. I say go for it if you all like each other.
2007-07-05 14:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends how old are you and how old is the guy. I personally think its normal to feel attractive to an older guy because maybe you feel as if the guys at your own age level are immature and your looking for maturity or you can also be looking for a guy that is more or less like a father figure.
2007-07-05 14:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by Tan Tan! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are older than 18 (in the US), there is no problem :) All that matters is that you're happy and that he keeps/makes you happy =] So Smile!!!
2007-07-05 14:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl..no problemo...there is no law saying you cant like someone older...probably if your under 18 you cant date someone older but thats all...go on and like who you wanna...
2007-07-05 14:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by ...oh... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 19 and my boyfriend is 31. we have been together happily for nearly a year. but then again I have a son so i may be a bit mature for my age...
2007-07-05 14:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Met my husband when I was 18, he was 28. As long as your an adult, age shouldn't matter.
2007-07-05 14:58:52 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Sweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋