Well i had a friend and it turns out 2 be that now he's my boyfriend and i could tell he loves me and i do too as a friend he wasnt the kind of guy to say i love you or 2 call a girl and he does that with me ,in a couple of days we are going to be 3 months lately me and him have been touching each other and i like it and we talk about it but it stays between me and him so we have respect and he tells me he would do anything with me and i guess he mean having sex too but what i dont know is if he wants to do it yet and if he does well i know i need more time and im sure hes responsible and will also wait but i really love him and i wanna be with him 4ever
2007-07-05 14:44:10 · 16 answers · asked by Sexy Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while me and him are touching each other we het very turned on his mom and his family knows me and him are together and my family doesnt know my mom just knows i really love him and hes my "friend" um the bad thing is that We are barely 13
and i also dont know if getting turned on with my boyfriend is okay
2007-07-05 14:45:55 · update #1
U are a very mature girl for 13 and I can say that you are very responsible.That good that U knows what U want B-cause like U said U are not ready to have sex,U have your head on your shoulders,better wait,and I see that you truly love that guy and you wanna be with him 4ever.Anyways don't change your mind about not having sex because if you let your emotion go over you while you are turned on U might regrets(Baby,pregnacy,school not every day attended,low grades,ect.;.;.;.;.;.).And if that guy really love You, he will definitely wait.But if he doesn't(like pressuring you)so he didn't worth your time.
2007-07-05 14:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 13 you need to stop where you are and wait. I'm 17 and I'm still not ready to have sex. Jesus christ girl, where do you live where touching eachother at 13 is normal??? If you don't slow down you may do something you regret. HOw would u like to be a mommy before you even get into high school? And I know you feel like you're in love now and wanna be with him 4ever, but that will probably vhange as you get older. Don't make a mistake.
2007-07-05 14:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, stop the touching. I guarantee that if you keep it up you will lose your virginity and then there's no going back.
I know it seems at 13 like this is it and you'll be together forever so it might be okay...take my word for it there is so much of life to look forward to. Please just be a kid for a while longer. It doesn't matter that you love him and that it feels good. You need to think seriously about your future, your dreams and what you want to do with your life.
2007-07-05 14:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny Days 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loving someone is one of the most beautiful experience a person can feel. I'm glad that with your age, you know how to love truly. Respect and trust, you got it. But having sex at a very early age, i guess it's not right and good for you. Having a relationship must be MUTUAL. If one does not like what the others like, then use the RESPECT you are telling me. Love is SACRED, love is PURE,. If you really love someone, learn to respect and take care of his personality, physically, emotionaly, spiritualy. NOT ALL THAT YOU WANT AND MAKES YOU HAPPY IS ACTUALLY GOOD FOR YOU. Remember that. All will fall in it's right time. Enjoy your company. And specially, always be RESPONSIBLE with your DECISIONS.
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2007-07-05 15:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jay-r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably do not want to hear this...but when I was your age I thought I was "in love" as well. Your virginity is something very special....and it well worth waiting for until you are married. I know it sounds so old fashioned, but I did not listen when I was your age. I am now 23 now and just starting college because I got tied up with someone I thought I was in love with. I got so behind with my life because I stopped living mine and started living his...later own I had his child and he left me...all I am saying is...it is much better to go ahead and enjoy your childhood while you still have it...LOVE will come and love will go....you might just be able to handle it better at an older age..even though it is so much lovelier while your young. The both of you have a lot of growing up to do and things to accomplish...if you two love each other as much as you say...prove it to each other by waiting...well that is just an idea..i know you will do as you please...and if you do as you please .....PLEASE use protection.
2007-07-05 15:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Barely 13" to me means that you are twelve. Either way, at twelve or thirteen, you are way too young to engage in sex. I understand that teenage love is very intense but you are way to young to engage in sex. Am I repeating myself here? Think of yourself at 14 with a baby. You will have no husband (that 13 year-old from last year will have bailed out). There will be no such thing as school or dating or dances or the prom. You will have an infant to take care of. And who wants to marry a 14 year old with a kid? Yuck.
2007-07-05 15:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by MICHAEL R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural that you have feelings for your boyfriend, however you are too young to make the commitment of having sex.
Sex will only complicate the relationship and could lead to pregnancy. Nothing short of abstinence is 100% safe, even condoms when used correctly are only 97% safe. Unless you want a baby then I suggest he keeps it in his pants and you keep your knees together.
2007-07-05 14:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by paganmom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well kiddo, please.. u r only 13 for godsake!!!!
Sex is not the only thing in a relationship! If he really loves u, ask him to wait until u guys marry or maybe when u r older a bit.
Its too risky when u r 13 u know... what if u got pregnant or some sex disease? U r still young. Dont spoiled ur life with lust.
2007-07-05 14:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by sweetzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you guys are too young to have sex gee wait have a good time before you make it serious don't run into it and you are still in an early part of the relationship 3moths isnt a long time
2007-07-05 14:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your kind of young for a boyfriend but it's normal to have these feelings but be careful because they can lead to things that you'll regret. And for your age you are wayyyyy to young for sex, don't trust guys especially the young 13 yrs, k!
2007-07-05 14:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by blacktwinus 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋