What's your opinion about losing virginity before marriage?

Question

What's your opinion about losing virginity before marriage?
For guys: Do you really care about the fact that your bride might not be a virgin.
For girls: Should that be a factor in your relationship?
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Answer 1

Sex is a sacred act between a man and a woman who love each other. If the two have established a strong emotional, intellectual, and spiritual connection, it will bring them together the closest they can ever be. Without love as its basis, sex is an empty act simply used to satisfy lust. Virginity should be reserved for that one special person.

I would care if my bride was not a virgin. But I would also try and see if she is a genuine person. If she really believed she was in love when she lost her virginity and is not promiscuous, I might accept it. It depends on the woman.

Answer 2

I think it's a very personal decision that no one else should pressure you or criticize you about. I do, however, believe anyone's first time should be with someone they love. Afterall, virginity is something you can never, ever get back so why give it to some one-night stand or some guy who just wants a "piece." It should be seen as a sacred gift, no matter what. I personally think there are pros to having sex before marriage but that's just my personal opinion. I've talked to and seen too many people on here for whom sex is a major problem in their marriage. There aren't many people who wait anymore but I believe knowing each other's sexual preferences beforehand is helpful to heading off any problems. Problems can occur when 1 partner has a wildly different level of sexual need than the other. These are things that can be found out before marriage if the couple has sex.

Answer 3

Well its a great goal to have, and I know some people that have managed to do it, but in today's society I think it's rare to find a bride and a groom that are both virgins. The girl I lost mine with swore we would always be together...then the relationship turned sex-based and she ended up cheating on me while I was away on a job for the summer. I've since met a girl that has a very similar situation as mine, and we're doing great. I would marry her in a heartbeat for all the right reasons and I know for a fact she's not a virgin.

Ultimately it comes down to your values and your communication. For some it's more of an issue than others. To me, though, so long as I know her history, I'm fine with it.

Answer 4

I have never been married and I'm not a virgin -- far from it!

Answer 5

Do what makes you happy. Sex is great. The vast majority of people don't wait until marriage for that very reason.

Answer 6

I think that one should remain a virgin before marriage....... i personally think that God will send me the right one at the right time in my life and I will be prepared for His best for me and if He is a virgin or not he is right for me.

Answer 7

I think it's ok as long as you lost it with the one you really love and want to live with the rest of your life. But if still he's not the one for you, just take it as a great memory you'll cherish.

Answer 8

I'm a virgin but I don't require that my husband be one. As long as he is willing to be celibate while we're dating and doesn't try to get me to compromise my values then we'll be fine.

Answer 9

I did it. I don't feel any regret about it.

Answer 10

im a girl. i think its important because when you lose it afyter marriage he knows you gave him something you could of gave to anyone but you gave it to him. i think its a major factor in a relationship!