me and my boyfriend have been together for a month i really care about him. but i was on his myspace and 9 days before he asked me out he was talking to this girl about how he loved and cared about this annie girl. then a day before we started dating he was takin to this one girl about dating her cuzzin. should i talk to him about it or just break up b4 i get hurt.. his myspace has pics of me and him and he deleted all the girls off of his page but he has there sn's and there numbers.. should i be worried?
2007-07-05 12:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
sounds like a player, to me, honey. better back out before your heart gets broken.
but if you feel you must talk to him about it, you can ... except that you have to realize that he can tell you ANYTHING to keep you there ... you won't know if he's telling the truth, till you bust him on it later.
2007-07-05 12:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by mrs sexy pants 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
These are all his prospects before you showed up. I don't know why that would worry you... I mean, do you think he was not thinking about women before you arrived on the scene?
The thing about Myspace is that it leaves a trail of evidence of a life beofre you.. that is all..... it is not there for your jelous mind to go filtering though it looking for evidence of interest in others.... and burning yourself up about it. You should be happy that out of all those prospects, for the moment, he prefers you and he puts photos of you on his myspace so that the other prospects get the message... you won already.. dont you get it?
You are at liberty to get concerned when he takes your photos off his myspace page and replacves them with photos of some sexy little number in a red dress that he is holding in his arms ..... then I advise that you should talk to him about it.. and quick.
2007-07-05 19:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, know this....what happened before you, was exactly that, before you. If he has made every effort to rid himself of all of his past baggage. Why would you make him suffer for doing exactly what a good guy should do. He's made it plain to the whole world by putting up pictures of you and him together on myspace that you are his girl. I mean before you guys were serious what was he supposed to do live a sheltered life and wait. my guess is that he was unsure and was still keeping all his options open. Take stock in the fact you are his one and only, and let the past be exactly that the past.
2007-07-05 19:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I am so sorry!! I don't have a boyfriend yet but it sounds like you need to talk to him pronto!! If he is asking about another girl to date. I would be so mad!!! And just stay strong!!! You will get through this!! Good luck!
2007-07-05 19:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by tink55 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mmmann i know what ur going through, i knew my ex/bff cheated on me with 2 girls but i found out yesterday he cheated like all the time, now i'm soo pissed, but i think u shouls just chill. time will only tell. just let him breathe. if he keeps acting fishy then talk to hime never spy
2007-07-05 19:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should not go right out and talk to him about it just give him a hint that you know what he said and you should beileive as hard
as you can and try to be calm{don't get the knife jk}and yes you should be a little worried[trust me i know im saying im a girl]
2007-07-05 19:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by camryn7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm . . . I think you should break up with him. Good night!
2007-07-05 19:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋