I am 16 and I live with my mom and she isgoing to move 2 hors away and i do not want to move away.......My boyfriend is 16 also and he lives with his mom ........We live in Michigan ....would I be able to live with him some how if my mom said no and his mom said yes? How would I be able to? What would I have to do? Is there a website for info?
2007-07-05 12:08:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Since you are under the age of eighteen, you'll have to do what your mother wants you to do, whether your boyfriends mother thinks its' okay for you to live with them or not. It's not her choice, its your mothers because she is your guardian.
Look on the brightside, two hours is not that great of a distance! You could be further apart than that, so if your boyfriend really does love you, he'll be willing to meet you at a half way point for you two to see each other, or go the entire distance to visit with you, until you are of legal age (18) and can do what you please.
2007-07-05 12:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because your mom is your legal gaurdian, there is nothing you can really do except accept it. If you are really in love with him and think that he is the one for you than I'm sure the relationship will work out somehow. Try looking into getting your driver's license that way you can drive and see him. And he should do the same. The last thing you want to do is start living with him despite what your mom says because she can easily have his mother arrested. Try talking to her if it bothers you that much. Having all of you sit down in talk may even be more effective. Maybe you can work something out where every Friday she drops you over there and you spend the entire weekend with him, and then his mom brings you back Sunday night or drops you to school Monday morning. You can't live with him if she says no. You are still a minor so there is nothing you can do except figure out other ways of seeing him often.
2007-07-05 12:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by nicky3162002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see it now. You go live with them, get pregnant, his mother kicks you out, you then try to run home and whine and snivel to your mother to start sponging off her, and dump another responsibility (the baby) on her shoulders instead of getting a job and paying for your child yourself. But of course without schooling and/or a good job you couldn't possibly do so.
NO. This is only your hormones talking. You do not yet have the judgment nor maturity to know who or what is right for you. You are a child. You have years yet to go. You need to finish high school, get through college, and then enter the workplace. You will meet hundreds of new people. You are a minor and your mother is right.
Besides, if your so-called "true love" is so everlasting and true, it can stand the test of time and separation -- RIGHT?!
2007-07-05 12:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay with your mom.I know it hurts, but if you are so afraid he will find someone else, then you must not really believe he loves you enough to wait.Also NEITHER of you have a job,a car and a place of your own, neither of you can support yourself,His mom is not thinking clearly if she said you could move in with her.Is she wanting to raise grandkids already?You NEED to finish school, get into college and get a degree so you can support yourself financially IF the need arises.Your b/f does too, so he can support you and ANY kids you have later on down the raod if you DO get married.Listen to your mom.You won't be sorry later, but you will be sorry if you do NOT listen to her.She sees all the pros and cons and is seeing through the eyes of reality, not hormone induced fantasy.She KNOWS what she is doing.Now quit giving her a hard time,K?
2007-07-05 12:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a wed site to tell you common sense, and that is you are still a minor and not old enough to take care of yourself. Do you have a job? Do you have money save to help your bf mom with rent? Most likely not so it best you move with your mother until your 18 and can support yourself, right now your just thinking of your bf but honey boys come and go out of your life and your mother is there for life. Family needs to stay together.
2007-07-05 12:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would have to have yourself emancipated, think about it though, you'll probably be severing any relationship with your mother forever. Moving a couple hours away from your boyfriend isn't the end of the world. Living with your bf is growing up way too fast.
2007-07-05 12:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engaged and Underage! J/K...don't do that. It'll ruin your life. When you turn 18 you can do whatever you want, until then you're mom is who you have to answer to. Sorry. But think about it...2 hours away isn't so bad. At least you're not 2 days away!
2007-07-05 12:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant get clean the main significant reason of your question. The widely used element is that she have been given pregnant; that she runaway; or that her boyfriend is hispanic? i think of that the main import ingredient is that she's pregnant. Then, that she runaway. And as much as me, if hers boyfriend is hispanic or anglo saxon, white or black, jew or christian, and so on., does no longer concern me in any respect, as long as he's a sturdy guy or woman. She is to youthful to have a toddler. yet abortion has lots of cons. To her concepts, her well being, and specifically to her son. might you had wrote this question in the adventure that your mom aborted you? are you able to carry on your ethical experience you killed your man or woman son? the different bothering facet of your question is that she runaway, Are you confident you gave her the splendid training, examples. and love she needed? i do no longer think of she is scared approximately her mom would take her away. She already did it via herself. And via the way, she wasn't rose from a cabbage. Her mom have been given pregnant from her. If her mom isn't stout, obstinate, stub born, complicated-headed or ill with a severe psychological ailment, would desire to love her, be waiting to communicate along with her, and help her to discover the ultimate answer possible in accordance to circumstances.
2016-12-10 03:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl no. first off your asking the wrong people. The only person who's answer matters is YOUR mother's and most likely she is not going to go for it. And his mother may not either because you are too young. You're 16, why cant you get your license and just drive to go and visit him? They only way you could pull that off is if you ran away and that is a terrible idea and a terrible excuse to run away. If its meant to be then you guys will work it out
2007-07-05 12:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are a minor and your mom is your guardian. If she says no than the answer is no. If she says yes than yes otherwise you would have to run away and you will get in trouble as will your bfs mom for harboring you
2007-07-05 12:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋