what would you do if you fell in love with your bestfriend?
But you know they dont feel the same
What would you do when you cant stop thinking about them? help me please
2007-07-05 11:41:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Falling in love with your best friend is one of the most common romantic problems but it is also one of the most difficult to resolve.In your case, my heart goes out to you because you already know that your best friend does not share your romantic interest.I don't how you know ( for example, did she tell you),but if you're willing to lose even the current friendship you now share,then I say to tell her how you feel and that she's always on your mind.Who knows, you might be pleasantly surprised by her response.All the best ...!
2007-07-05 11:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to understand why you fell in love with him, or her. Is it because you are close friends and you like the bond you have, is it that you fell in love with the idea of this person. If it is simply that you love them, then why not tell them. How do you know they don't feel the same way as you. are you thinking of this person sexually or just in other ways. talk to him/her and let them know how you feel.
2007-07-05 18:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it to yourself...unless you don't mind losing a friend- most people react immaturely to such a situation and can't maintain a normal friendship once that cat is let outta the bag! Trust me... my friendgirls that I've turned down always end up hating me and never talking to me again despite a long history of strong friendship. It's sad, but women turn into little girls that way!
2007-07-05 18:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by theWord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man ur in a tuff one!!! ive had this proublem before, and i think u should tell her how you feel and maybe she will change her mind, if u already have then try again ive liked the same guy for almost 9 years and am in my teens. and i think he likes me and finally realizes this. so dont give up man hang in there. k?
2007-07-05 18:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by felicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be their best friend. You never know what might happen in the future!!! Are you sure your friend doesn't feel the same way?
2007-07-05 18:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by stay at home mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel or move on. if you think there is a chance for a relationship and a chance it wont ruin your friendship then tell him. if you value what you have now and dont want it ruined, try to move on. it will be very hard,but you have to set your eyes on someone new. good luck and i hope everything works out.
2007-07-05 18:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope like hell I get over it. Stay busy and quit daydreaming so much about them. How do you know they don't feel the same way? you might be suprised!!
2007-07-05 18:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by pennylane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on what ur willing to lose, telling your friend may cause tention in the friendship and end it.or u can hold it in and feel like crap, this is pritty much a lose lose situation
2007-07-05 18:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by M0N!QU3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continiue to
1.be her/his freind
2.try toget him/her to feel the same
PS:Are you 100 per cent sure they dont fell the same?
2007-07-05 18:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Claire B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be best friends....perhaps in time, they will change - but know that going this way may have its ups & downs...
2007-07-05 18:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by faceeternity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋