how do you get a man to like you in 12 days?

Answer 1

The first thing you need to do is to DROP the 12 days "rule" - when it comes to Love, either it will happen right away, or it will take it's time.

Forcing someone to Love you defeats the whole purpose of Love - they will end up resenting (and eventually Hating) you because you pressured them into a relationship. All this can lead to is pain, misery, heartbreak, and possibly even infidelity - all because of rushing a naturally occuring process!

If it's meant to be, it WILL happen - and only WHEN it is ready to happen ;););)

Answer 2

Do the opposite of everything that Kate Hudson does in How to Lose a Guy in 10 days. XD

Or you can just become his best friend. Hang out with his friends to make them like you too, so he would be more comfortable with you. And he will hang out with you more because you can hang out with his friends as well. Learn some things about each of his close buddies so you can become friends with them too, and you can learn a few things from them about the guy you like too.

Learn what he is interested in. Then you yourself can research a bit on it and you can talk about it together. Everyone loves engaging stories.

Tell jokes to him over the email, instant messaging, phone, or even in person. Everyone likes a funny person, but test it out first on your close friends who won't tell it to him. Theres nothing worse than a poorly executed joke, or a joke he already knows. If he does know it, go on to a funny story.

Never embarrass him and dress up in sexy clothing sometimes just to give a preview of what he can get or just to give him an idea that your relationship can lead to sex.

And never assume anything about him. Misunderstandings always leads to fights. If you do get into one, admit that your wrong most of the time so he would feel better. If it turns out you he really was wrong, don't do the "I told you so" routine.

When you're on dates, suggest somewhere fun to go like rock climbing, amusement parks, parties, etc. Its also nice if you pick up the bill once in a while or pay for half. Most men will be impressed but if they insist, let them take the bill.

Hope these help, but if they don't, then just watch the movie and do the opposite. XD

Answer 3

if he dont like you on the first day he isnt going to like you on the 12th day but he may use you and tell you he loves you anyways

yet if your willing to look above it will work on every day=this is the best way to good laughter, fun and everwhat=see the lighter side of life, please!, and I am born Jewish

then again I am now kicked out of my synagogue because I am called a rebel, no not for my sins-they felt even if I was an atheist I am still Jewish, yet because I believed in hope and my Jewish scriptures-I am considered a traitor a rebel! Isaiah 9:6 "Unto us a child is born, a son is given, and he will be the mighty God and the prince of peace."

I wish the best for you and this was my breakthrough=when one realizes that Jesus unconditionally loves them
regardless of the torments of evil, problems, tests and trials, and tears through to smiles. May we realize that Jesus brings the
best in life to each of us every day, if we just open our spiritual
eyes=His mercies are new every morning, great is thy
faithfulness (Lamentations 3:21-26,. then a new beginning happens every day.
If you feel lost pray="Jesus help me, I am sorry for letting you down, forgive me and lift me up where I belong, come into my heart to stay, help me find your best way, amen." Revelation 1:1, & 3:19&20 spoken by Jesus from heaven "As many as I love, I rebuke and correct, turn quickly to me from sin. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you hear my word and ask me in, I will come in and be your friend."

If we already had done that then its asking him to forgive and restore the joy of our salvation (Psalm 51)

Jesus understands us heart and soul, he is trustworthy,

have the best day ever, heads up and smiled, David

Answer 4

You don't get a man to like you....it happens in a split second or doesn't happen at all.

If you mean love...that's a different time frame all together.

Answer 5

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, why 12 days , why not in that moment, just look at his eyes so deeply, or feel him ur presence till he notice that, or just say to him " i love you man". strange question .

Answer 6

why 12 days anyway just try 2 do watevr he likes be nice carring lovely

Answer 7

Just be yourself and hope that he feels the same way and if he doesn't then he's missing out on a great person

Answer 8

Tell him you like him, he will know he has no chance of rejection and may be more likely to take the next step.

Answer 9

you can't put a time on love... go with the flow and just try to talk to him more and get more personal with him. ask him deeper questions that will make him feel more connected to you and he'll want to talk to you. who knows, maybe he already likes you ;)

BEST OF LUCK!!

Answer 10

whatever interests you about this guy is a characteristic that you yourself should strive to have
if he plays guitar... learn... if he's college educated get your degree...
we're usually attracted to people that have qualities that we envy... make yourself enviable and he'll be the one on here trying to get your attention!!
good luck!