Help. I am balding real fast, which means women won't ever like me. I am extremely depressed about this. I am 34 and I have never had a girlfriend. I just don't understand how being bald is attractive, unless you have an extremely handsome face, which I do not. So am I destined to be alone for the rest of my life? If so, how do I deal with this loneliness for the rest of my life?
2007-07-05 11:21:03 · 10 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always remember this: looks are not everything.
if a guy is dating the most beautiful woman in the world, but she is mean and b!tchy, he will eventually get tired of her. i know what always attracts me to a guy is their sense of humor and their abiltiy to have a meaningful conversation.
yes, in a relationship there does need to be some physical attraction, but a good relationship is 15% physical attraction and 85% personality attraction.
besides, you thinking ur ugly is only YOUR opinion. i bet there is a woman out there who will think that you are very handsome!
and randy g: being a woman, we women actually like it when guys resist at first when we ask about their feelings, but later briefly open up to us. but, we HATE it when guys ALWAYS blurt out their feelings and get all moody and stuff. total turnoff.
so just make sure that if u open up, u arent too whiney and that u dont teel ur girl EVERYTHING!
p.s. heres a tip: if u dont have any hair on your head, try growing some facial hair to boost your confidence.
2007-07-05 11:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by x_LITTLE_RED_♥_MCR_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only guy in his early thirties to be losing his hair. I am too. The difference is I still get women. Plenty of women find me attractive and I'm the same is true with you. The fact that you've never had a girlfriend is a totally different issue. 34 makes a pretty old virgin. It also seems that you wasted all the years with hair and may never have had confidence. Start today. Pretend to have confidence the way everyone else does and as it starts to pay off the confidence will become real. Now get off your self pitying @$$ and get some women!
2007-07-05 11:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are making the typical male mistake of assuming that women care as much about looks as men do. Women do notice looks, but they can also be turned on by ugly guys who have the right personality traits too.
Being bald isn't bad if you don't try to hide it. Forget the hair piece and/or the gross comb-over, BTW.
Women are usually attracted to men who are
-Funny
-Unpredictable
- Uncontrollable
- Challenging
- Dominant
Women are NOT attracted to insecure men. Insecure men display the following feminine behaviors:
- They Pursue
- Cling
- Share "feelings"
- Act submissive
- Seek approval
- Pine away
If you act like a woman, or worse, a like "loser", then how do you expect to attract a woman?
Women are attracted to positive, upbeat men who act comfortable in their own skin.
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I almost forgot; other than humor, self-confidence is the most sexy trait that women love in a man.
2007-07-05 11:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a joke.....
when did you start going bald?
12?
if you're 34 and never had a girlfriend... balding isnt the problem... its something else.... maybe self confidence from the sound of it.
PS i started balding at 28... i shaved it all off at 33 and now i look like uncle Fester... but i think my wife is hot and she's happy with me so who cares...
find a sense of humor, a sense of worth... be happy with yourself and others will want to be around you...
cheers
2007-07-05 11:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are you aren't alone the rest of your life. try shaving it all some men can pull it off. i think it looks hot. some women are interested in more than looks. if they are only into looks, you don't need em anyway. a bald head does not make you a loser. get some confidence.
2007-07-05 11:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by babe with an attitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem,but i was married and have had girlfriends.
it is in your head,i know this cause i feel the same.but a girl i see now has helped me,when i come over,her and her daughter will take off my hat and say you look so much cuter with out it,i feel naked in a way,but it is reassuring to know that women dont just judge you on your appearance alone.
i still have that nagging thought in the back of my head that if some guy with hair comes along she would choose him over me,but then that guy would have to be as decent and honest as me..lol..and as funny and sensitive and as strong..so i guess in away,it comes down to confidence.
some of my friends tease me about in public,but i dont really think they are friends,so it dont matter.
2007-07-05 11:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave your head. Don't hide it. Comb overs look stupid. Many women find bald men sexy.I shave mine with bare clippers I don't do the razor thing. Women like it.
2007-07-05 11:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-27 18:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bald isnt your prolbem, its you
2007-07-05 11:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by tnictlo2000 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
nude except for a plaid fanny pack
2007-07-05 11:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋