Take care of the one you already have and get married first...
2007-07-05 10:58:09
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answered by Angelus 4
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Seems to me that if you have to ask strangers about your future you may already have hesitations about spending the rest of your life with this person. Is this marriage the means to the end? Meaning, are you getting married JUST to have a baby? The only reason you should marry is for love....especially if there are children involved. Too many times our children take a backseat to self gratification.
Best of luck to you.
2007-07-05 18:03:20
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answer #2
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answered by Squash Blossom 2
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No one else seems to be mentioned here, just you and your adopted baby.
If you meet mr right-if your willing to live in honor till next year sure go for it-yet if you cant hold back best get married now, and go for the baby everwhen is best or let this one come natural.
and to help the family and the adopted child all feel as a true family with help from above=this is the best way to good laughter, fun and everwhat=see the lighter side of life, please!, and I am born Jewish
then again I am now kicked out of my synagogue because I am called a rebel, no not for my sins-they felt even if I was an atheist I am still Jewish, yet because I believed in hope and my Jewish scriptures-I am considered a traitor a rebel! Isaiah 9:6 "Unto us a child is born, a son is given, and he will be the mighty God and the prince of peace."
I wish the best for you and this was my breakthrough=when one realizes that Jesus unconditionally loves them
regardless of the torments of evil, problems, tests and trials, and tears through to smiles. May we realize that Jesus brings the
best in life to each of us every day, if we just open our spiritual
eyes=His mercies are new every morning, great is thy
faithfulness (Lamentations 3:21-26,. then a new beginning happens every day.
If you feel lost pray="Jesus help me, I am sorry for letting you down, forgive me and lift me up where I belong, come into my heart to stay, help me find your best way, amen." Revelation 1:1, & 3:19&20 spoken by Jesus from heaven "As many as I love, I rebuke and correct, turn quickly to me from sin. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you hear my word and ask me in, I will come in and be your friend."
If we already had done that then its asking him to forgive and restore the joy of our salvation (Psalm 51)
Jesus understands us heart and soul, he is trustworthy,
have the best day ever, heads up and smiled, David
2007-07-05 18:10:12
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answered by Anonymous
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I pushed my date up from next august to this august and wish I hadnt, it's soo much work and you can't get anything booked because a million other brides already have the services you need, I had problems with the cake, reception and ceremony sites, and pretty much everything.
As impatient as I was I wish someone had just told me to cool it. especially if you already have a child to take care of I would wait and just start planning for next summer now. be ahead of the game.
2007-07-06 00:56:48
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answered by Issabug 2
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One year is the perfect time to plan a wedding.
If you try to rush it, your just going to stress yourself out, and lower your chances of even getting pregnant.
If you love this person, you can wait one year before you have a baby...he's not going anywhere right?
2007-07-05 18:44:58
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answered by Alicia F 3
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it depends. are you getting married because you love your spouse, or are you getting married because its more acceptable to be married before you conceive a child.. you sound baby crazed.. only get married if you truly love the guy..
2007-07-05 19:25:39
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answered by Anonymous
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That's something that you and the groom need to sit down and talk about. Then you both can come up with a compromise.
2007-07-05 19:25:06
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answer #7
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answered by ice38034 4
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wait to get married. discuss this with your fiance in the meantime and figure out what is right for you and your family.
2007-07-05 17:58:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Why don't you focus on finding a good man worthy of marriage rather than worrying about your wedding date?
2007-07-05 17:58:33
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answered by :) 3
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It's only a year! you've waited this long whats one more year? besides good things are worth waiting for.
2007-07-05 18:03:46
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answered by pennylane 6
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