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2007-07-05 10:46:10 · 20 answers · asked by digilook 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
the more people, the more people problems!
2007-07-05 10:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I would consider those people as "control freaks". they want to control every part of the family's lives, so they isolate them from other people so there won't be any kind of outside influence on them. I think it's too bad that the significant other doesn't see this and do something about it. maybe fear, maybe blind love, who knows? but it sure is sad.
2007-07-05 10:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by chercinbob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Various correct answers. I see no justification of this for children.
However, if a significant other is being hurt, that individual need not stay around the one who is trying to control. People like to blame the controller, but they ignore the responsibility of the controlled as well. If you can't deal with something, leave the relationship. If you don't mind being "controlled," then that's your own view. No one is forced to stay unless he allows himself to be placed in such a situation.
2007-07-08 09:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy and control is correct.
PS. Insecurity too.
And from a Buddhist perspective: ignorant mind.
2007-07-05 11:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity.
2007-07-05 11:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isolation brings control. You can't control people if they get unfettered access to other people.
2007-07-05 10:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by parcequilfaut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control issues, most prominently seen among these christians who subscribe to this "promise keeper" programme. And it's not only control, but a lot abuse because that is basically what promise keepers preaches.
2007-07-05 10:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of the folks who've answered have speculated it as control and they are quite right, but the reason for the control behaviour is born of fear. Fear of loss, fear of others..fear... it really is sad that we base our actions on fear...don't you think so...?
2007-07-06 02:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Gaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The visible reason for this is possesiveness and control.
The inner reason, the motivation for this control, is fear.
2007-07-05 16:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by ☎ Rotary Dial ☎ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
incorrect understanding forced on them by propagandist fear.
I hope they break from fear by knowing everyone is beautitful.
(to the person who said everyone is a bad influence i really hope you don't truly belive that. if you do : find your third eye )
Namaste
Passion & Wisdom.
Buff.
2007-07-06 03:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of losing them. I know because I have done this. I was so terrified my loved ones would die or leave me, I wanted to control everything they did. My behavior drove them away. Ironic, eh?
2007-07-05 10:51:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋