A lady my family and I hardly knew was at my dad's funeral.
While I was eating she came up to me didn't even say "sorry or anything." She continued on and on at least an hour about her problems and life in general. I was already depressed about my dad and other things. Then a year later after my dad's death she starts following me at my church, and then the store I go to grocery store shopping at and the same laundromat too, and asking me strange questions, about me and my family! She was stalking me, because she lives 20 minutes away and there are plenty of stores and 2 churches where she lives.
Is she crazy or what, and what do you make of this?
She also asked me how much $$ did we get from my Dad, and does my family have to work or anything.........
No she is not a relative, or mistress or anything like that.
What is her interest?
2007-07-05 08:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Ask her who she is and why she is asking all these questions. You train people how to treat you so you need to put a stop to this now. Try to get her name and address or at least her license number and make a police report. Be sure and document all these weird confrontations (date, time and conversation) so you can share them with a detective. Some how your dad must have known her so don't exclude anything until you have more details. Really sorry for your loss and now it's time to cut her off and put a stop to this invasion of your privacy and when she asks you any personal questions, tell her it's none of her business. For her to ask about the money makes me very suspicious of how she knew your dad so be careful what you share with her. Talk with a detective and let them guide you on what to do legally.
2007-07-05 09:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it fairly is not "general". do no longer answer her questions and tell her sternly to bypass away you on my own and to no longer worry you any further or you will report her to the government. Who on your loved ones is conscious her, why became she on your place for the duration of/after the funeral? became she invited or did she see the loss of existence be conscious interior the paper? it fairly is not somebody you ought to be "extreme-high quality" to, you in no way enable somebody step on and run over those boundries while you evaluate this is a sparkling indication that something is rather incorrect. BTW, i'm sorry approximately your dad.
2016-10-19 22:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by mehan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. Why would someone want to know this information? Do you think she could be an illegitimate child of your father's? I would ask her what her particular interest in your family is about? Then, I would tell her to quit following you. It may be a coincidence that you are at the same places.
2007-07-05 08:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Soul Shaper 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could flat out ask her what she wants, confront her and demand an explanation.
Be prepared for a wild answer though.
PS - I'm sorry for your loss.
2007-07-05 08:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what her interest was with me and my dad.
BTW, I am sorry about the loss of your dad.
2007-07-05 08:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by sparkles9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like this are usually looking to cause trouble. Keep away from her, don't give her any information.
2007-07-05 08:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya Pants 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order
2007-07-05 08:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I would take this one to my pastor. Tell him everything.
This is one of the many things he is there for. Use his knowledge and wisdom in this situation.
Godspeed
2007-07-05 09:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell this person to leave you the F alone
2007-07-05 08:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by FallenAngel© 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very lonely...be polite but do not allow her to ask such questions. Keep it limited to, "Nice weather, huh?"
2007-07-05 08:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by The Carmelite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋