my family allways have something to say about everything that i do or say
2007-07-05 08:32:36 · 16 answers · asked by kayla m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Because you are a young kid thats why. Wait until you grow up and move out of their house...then you can have all the privacy you want. And you even get to pay your own bills.
2007-07-05 08:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by maybe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to grin and bear it. My family is like this too, and let me tell you, there is nothing you can do that is going to make them change instantly, if at all. You just have to keep reminding them that you don't appreciate them nosing into your life like this. Understand that they only do it because they care about you, but also, help them to understand what it's doing to you--that it's annoying, frustrating, and a burden. Once you are older and move out of the house it will be easier. You will have more peace and freedom. Until then, this is what you will have to live with. Let your parents know that it is one thing for them to offer suggestions, but another to keep constant tabs on you and try to tell you how to live your life. Good luck =)
2007-07-05 15:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Zarango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends. If you are younger than 18, then you should respect their rules and thank God that you have a family who cares about you. If you are 18 or older, then get a job and move out. I'll bet your family is in your business because you haven't proven to them that you can make responsible decisions without their guidance. Try showing some responsibility, then they may trust you more.
2007-07-05 15:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by jwurz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more information. However, if you are a minor, you don't have much choice. You're lucky to have parents who care about what you are doing.
Otherwise, if you have reached adulthood, and are on your own, simply don't volunteer any information, nor should you have to answer questions that you don't think are any of your family members business. Politely change the subject, or give a vague answer; i.e., "everything's fine".
2007-07-05 15:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband's family does the samething. You need to stay strong and let them know that YOU are the one in charge of your life not them. Hang in there, eventually they'll see that and leave you alone. If not, you need to tell them exactly how you feel.
2007-07-05 15:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by goodmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I never had that problem because my parents were too busy with their own lives to realized I was alive (until somebody wanted to beat or molest me, that is) so gosh, I feel awful that you have a family who cares.
Be grateful.
2007-07-05 15:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make stories
and do strage things to shock them
be yourself, times 100
then say maybe , last night with them 3 lesbians was awesome
let em gossip
make em have to actually talk with you to verify
if they don't, add on stranger and starnger things
2007-07-05 15:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you didn't mention your age. Maybe its in your best interest, that they are in your business. until you move out they are going to be in your business.
2007-07-05 15:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's their job. To look after your best interests.
2007-07-05 15:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It's hard to asnwer until I know more aabout you.
2007-07-05 15:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋