He points to it and tries to take off his diaper, then when we get it off, he likes to just sit on it and does nothing. He then wants to get off and flush it, then get back on and repeat the entire process over and over. Its cute and funny, but I dont think he knows what its for, what should I do?
2007-07-05 07:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by Face on Fire 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Do i have him sit on the toilet to pee? Or when we get a "potty" for him do I make him stand?
2007-07-05 07:55:27 · update #1
let him - he will be getting the idea and it's good encouragement.
does he see you use the toilet? again, it's all part of him getting used to the process and understanding what it's all about and what it's for.
the bladder control muscles are developed *from* 18 months, so he will be getting there, but there are more signs to look for, like:
> ability to hold his wee for longer
> ability to follow simple instructions
> ability to manage his own clothes when dressing and undressing
It's great he's interested - encourage, and see how it goes!
2007-07-05 07:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have potty trained both my son and daughter and I would say boys are definitely harder to train.
I think it really helps boys to pee standing up. They see what is happening and connect the sensations. I started by having my son pee in the grass before he got in the swimming pool so it all started as a fun thing. My friend told me how happy she was with The Potty Stool. http://www.thepottystool.com I was skeptical it would make a difference but I could not believe how much it helps! Both my son and daughter could get safely to the toilet and my son can pee down into the toilet while standing and he can hold onto the sidepiece for complete stability. I love that I don't have to dump a potty and kids never touch the toilet.
The best thing is that kids use it for years. Hope this helps.
2007-07-08 08:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All children are different, and they become potty trained at different ages.
Put your son into pull ups, and encourage him to use the potty, if only to sit on it so he gets used to the idea of using it. Keep asking him if he needs a wee or poo, and if he does get him there as soon as. It is entirely upto you whether you want to teach him to pee standing or sitting. sitting is easier (just ensure his little man is in).
Once your son is using the potty and his pull up is becoming dryer. You could change the pull up for underwear, don't worry if he has accidents. Don't show your annoyance or get angry with him if he has accidents, he doesn't have as strong a bladder as you.
Praise him for just sitting on the potty at first, and eventually for doing something on it. You could use stickers or small treats for him doing something, this shows him that it is a good thing.
Good Luck...
2007-07-05 08:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by kayrich2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be ready. Interest in the potty is the first step. He also has to be able to communicate to you clearly that he needs to go. He also has to have good control of his bowels. Usually you can tell they do if they can sleep through the night without wetting the diaper. Go ahead and get a potty and get him used to having it around. If he takes off his diaper, sit him on it. Or if you notice him grunting to have a BM. Whatever you do, don't be pushy. It has to be his decision. Give him lots of praise when he does go. Good luck!
2007-07-05 08:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by SoShyFyi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. He's ready.
It will take your time and dedication to help him realize when to go and when not to go. That's where you come in as the coach.
We sat my son down after he showed interest several times a day until he went one time. We used the sit down time (which is good until he learns to control the fire hose) to learn numbers and letters. We made a huge deal (excitement, good boy!, etc) when he went so it would encourage the behavior. Eventually, he'll get the point.
Give it plenty of time and lots of practice and you'll get that $20 per trip to the store back in your pocket.
Happy potty training!!
2007-07-05 08:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brian O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's off to a good start. He probably doesn't have the physical skills right now to be potty trained, but if you don't mind him playing like this it can't hurt. Watch out for him flushing things down the toilet, though.
It's usually easier for boys to start off sitting, then graduate to standing, but whatever works for you. Standing is messier, but more fun.
2007-07-05 08:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Meghan H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's old enough. It's you that needs to do the potty training. 20-30 minutes after meals put him on. Before he goes to bed and after he gets up from bed, put him on. I used cheerios in the potty to help my boy learn to pee in the pot. Reward him for going, pee or poop. Praise, and small pieces of toosie roll did it for my son, mostly praise and a few stickers for my daughter. Good luck. Fun times!
2007-07-05 07:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by LG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! HE'S READY! You are lucky, because I had to trick my daughter into thinking that Barney peed in the potty and she should, too. Lol. Let him sit, and as he gets a little older, have him stand.
2007-07-05 08:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is ready then. i sit my son on the potty to pee and he is 2. after he gets the hang of sitting to pee then stand him up.
2007-07-05 08:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by favorite_aunt24 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a Google search for a Peter Potty...it's a toddler urinal! it helped train my boys! Good Luck!
2007-07-05 08:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Catherine G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋