someone you worked with? What if he's married?
2007-07-05 04:35:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK What if he wasn't happily married and was super hot?
2007-07-05 04:58:54 · update #1
What if he's unhappily married? What if he's just sooo super hot you just have to find out what he's like in bed. By the way I have no intentions to get in a relationship or ever in my life to get married.
2007-07-05 05:01:09 · update #2
yes.
married? no.
I almost did once, and made my intentions known, but I'm glad she was a good enough friend to see my real need and declined. I'm happy to this day that she did, because we are still good friends.
2007-07-05 04:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by purplex62 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Would Have A Fling With Someone I Worked With But If He Was Happilied Married No Because Just Think About It Would You Like Some Other Girl To Have A Fling With Your Husband...
2007-07-05 11:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Smiley139 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad idea - very bad.
All the way around - not smart. It never works out for the "other person", and especially if he's married - well, you're just adding gun powder to that fire.
NONONOnononono - don't, just DON'T! Stay away from this guy! Bad news, and you will be the one that will called all of the names. Especially if you work with him.
EDIT:
Even if he is hot, don't do it. Work place gossip is bad enough, and to have that hanging over your head is just not good. Your personal life mixes with professional, and YOU will be the one that looks bad.
And if the wife ever finds out - seriously. It's not a good situation to get yourself in.
Sorry - not what you wanna read, but don't risk everything for a hot guy that could cost you your job, etc.
2007-07-05 11:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Done 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NEVER! You are working with dangerous territory's here. When you work with someone and get a fling normally, it wont work out and 1 of you will have to leave your job! and if he's married... ARE YOU NUTS! MARRIED-- TAKEN-- Keep your hands off a married man, you'll be used he'll never leave his wife for you and in the end- you are just some married mans mess thats there when he needs her-
2007-07-05 11:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that and I would strongly advise against it. It's just plain stupid to do such a thing and now I'm older and much wiser.
Hot or not, happily or unhappily married, it just does not matter!! You DON'T go there! Have a little respect for yourself!
And remember...I'm speaking from experience...I've made that mistake and learned from it so others don't have to.
2007-07-05 11:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was seeing a married man for a year!! I know it seems fun and exciting to start but as girls tend to get very attached and it becomes messy!! You will be his bit on the side- is that really what you want? Doesnt matter how much they tell you they love you- they will never leave their wife!! Its a year of my life that I completely regret!!!
I am assuming your asking this question coz your in this situation!!
My advice be careful- Think of the lives that could possibly be ruined! It will only end in tears!!
2007-07-05 11:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Blush 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a fling with a married man. My ex-husband cheated on me and I hate cheaters so that would be a turn off to me.
As far as dating someone I worked with - if there was no policy against it and he was not my supervisor I would date someone I worked with.
ADDITIONAL DETAILS: well you didn't say he was really hot. How can you leave these important things out. LOL
2007-07-05 11:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are into that kind of thing, I guess, but if you want a relationship with substance and a future, I would look elsewhere. Nothing good will come out of it. The physical aspect of it might be good, but be prepared to be let down emotionally........ A LOT
2007-07-05 11:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never have a fling with someone that's married. there's all kinds of problems if other people find out and it's just not right.
2007-07-05 11:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, yes to someone I work with, but no if he's married. It's not right to go out with married men.
2007-07-05 11:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never mess around with someone that I work with because its unprofessional and it will be crazy trying to keep it a secret. I most def. will never mess with someone that is married because I plan on getting married one day and I would hate to find out that my husband was cheating. You should never do something that you can't handle happening to you
2007-07-05 11:40:45 · answer #11 · answered by CuriousStacy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋