♥He has the VL(vato loco) tattoo on his hand. Vato Loco is a gang full of mexican guys. He is a mexican bad boy. I don't know if he is in a gang or not, but I think he is. I really like him, and I don't know what to do. I don't want to break up with him. He watches over me because I have all the other mexicans in the trailer park after me. I need some help.♥
2007-07-05 04:30:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he treats you well and it doesn't appear to you that he's doing anything wrong, then there's no reason to break up with him. What i would do if you're worried about him being in a gang is to calmly ask him if he's in a gang (and ask it normally, without a sense of anger in your voice). If he says he is, then talk to him about why he likes being in the gang, and kindly advise him any feelings you have against the gang. Don't push him too far, because no one likes to be caught in between two things. If you think that he is doing something that he should not be doing, immediately find out if it is true, and if it is, you should do whatever it takes for you to not get involved or get in trouble.
2007-07-05 04:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by merri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Gang members...It's tough to have a BF in a gang, his gang might be his number 1 priority and therefore land him in prison or 6 feet under. That's the truth though it may be blunt. Gangs are a phase, a long phase for most and many of those it's a life long commitment.
My advise, break up with him and find a bf that goes to school and has a bright future. You are young and know it or not, you will break up with him later down the line. I know. Listen to me or at least think about it hard. Don't invest your time into something that will not float. There's a chance he will leave his gang for you but then again, there's a chance you might win the lottery too. I've been there done that.
2007-07-05 04:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by wifi2voice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the opposite men obtained the equal tattoo and sure he is in a gang! You will have to be concerned and I do not suppose you will have to be with a gang member! Now I 'm no longer certain what four method however is appears like some thing unhealthy! And he demands to difference his angle! You desire a uncover anyone that is no longer a gang member!!
2016-09-05 15:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by vansoest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good thing is he protects you, and you like him. But he is mostly likely in a gang that brings nothing but violence and negative problems to his life. The father of my children is in a gang (we are separated)I had some bad experiences. He would always be in war with rival gangs and I wouldn't feel safe with my children around him at all. Now he has many enemies,he only comes to my house to visit our kids.Its really bad we have to go places far out so we are not in danger, and he never enjoys himself because he is always looking over his shoulder and packing a gun around. I started out just like you and now I have two children by a gang member. That not the life to live you deserve better, he might be a protector for you at the moment but you don't know what the future will bring.
2007-07-05 04:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by A Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the gang with him, girl! Show him your love! Vato Locos Forever!
2007-07-05 04:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it depends on what you mean by "after you," if they want to hurt you, then you shouldn't rely on someone to take the law into his own hands, but if they all like you, well, maybe one of them would be better for you. Gangsters are capable of doing some really ugly things to people, and he can get pretty messed up himself. I know how tough gang members make it for their members to leave, but if he cares about you, he won't let that stop him and he'll get out.
2007-07-05 04:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him as a bodyguard or as your boyfriend?
ONCE IN HE'S NEVER OUT!
You are just asking for trouble if you stick with this guy.
Picture this: you and your boyfriend are walking down the street, suddenly a car stop in front of you 2 and start shooting to him, this time, he gets away! Do you think that those bad boys are going to stop searching for him? Don't you think that you can get kill in the process?
Move on girl, get a life but a real one!
2007-07-05 04:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ray C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody who needs to have a gang behind him is a punk. Besides most gangmembers are not faithful,but i'm sure you already know this. So if you want to stay with him then you deserve what you get.(std,preg,beatings, jailtime, death and a lifetime of disappointments.Good luck
2007-07-05 04:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mario R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM. If you think he is, you need to talk to him now. Having a boyfriend or anyone you know in a gang could be dangerous for them and yourself.
Talk to him, and if he is, talk him out of it. If he won't leave the gang, leave him. Many people write gang logos on themselfs, but you need to ask.
2007-07-05 04:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ryoko, The Space Pirate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him first oif he is. I know a lot of poser guys who just get gang symbols on their bodys to make them feel cool If he says he is then break up with him. Why would you want to be involved with that? Your just going to eventually put yourself in danger.
2007-07-05 04:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋