I had been dating this guy for 6 months when he decided to end it in May. He wanted to date other girls but date me too. A few days later he decided he wanted to be with me. So we got back together. Then a few weeks later he broke up with me again. He dated other girls and me too. Then in June he told me I was the one for him and he wanted to be with me forever. July 3 he told me he wanted it over for good and was going to see another girl. July 4 he called me and told me I was right that she wasn't the one for him and I was. He wants me back forever, which he has told me each time he decides he wants to be with me. I do want to go back to him, but I'm afraid of him doing it all over again. My family hates him, they don't want to talk to him or see him. Even though I have talked to him, he keeps telling me he is sorry and I'm the one for him. I want to go back to him but I'm forbidden to. All I do is cry. I just don't know what to do.
2007-07-05 04:23:19 · 13 answers · asked by Kimberly M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kimberly, Kimberly -
Dump the guy, don't listen to his line of "poop" and find a good man to be with.
He is worse than most women about what he wants, sounds to me like he just doesn't want to be alone, and you keep leaving the door open for him to come back.
You deserve better, which is why your family doesn't like him, you should WANT better for yourself.
Allowing a man to walk all over you will not make for a good relationship / marriage. Is he going to continue this type of behavior after your married?
Stop it now, move on with your life and with someone who knows what he wants and not someone so wishy washy!
Best of luck
2007-07-05 04:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ♥Be Happi♥ ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother with this guy. he keeps puttin u off pickin u up again. u deserve more respect 4 urself. if ur parents don't like him, that should tell u sumthin. leave him alone and find sum1 better. don't give him a choice 2 have u. switch it around, u give me a choice and if he keep doin that 2 u than dump him lose his number and get over it. there r too many handsome men walkin around 2 be worried about 1 asshole.
2007-07-05 11:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing mind games with you. If you were truly the one then he wouldn't have to leave you. Don't go back to him! If he wanted to be with your forever then he would stop calling it off. Tell him you don't need a person like that and move on with your life and find someone who is going to cherish you for you.
2007-07-05 11:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by jennisea04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just for this once, listen to your family and don't go back to him. They want the best for you and he's not it. Just thinking of how many times he's spun you around makes me dizzy. If you marry and get pregnant, will he play the same game about and with the kids?
2007-07-05 11:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Maya's Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be some loser's back up plan when things don't work out with someone else? Probably not. Ditch him, he isn't even close to being worth your time.
2007-07-05 11:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by leonard_leroy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps playing with your mind ! He does not sound like the man for you. What makes him so different now ? There are plenty of fish in the sea!!!
2007-07-05 11:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by mom-mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.. my friend is in the same position. this guy sounds like a snake. if your family hates him, it could be telling you something. i wouldnt go back to him because all your doing is making yourself miserable. this sounds bad but my friend is talking to her guy like yours and someone else whos interested in her to see which one she likes better and who treats her right. it sounds wrong but its almost the right thing to do. its the only way to find out without losing one of them when you figure out they could be the one for you. try that and see how it works.
2007-07-05 11:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go back to him. If he keeps breaking up with you and then changing his mind, something is up. There is someone for you, who will love you for you and won't break up with you, because he will be sure that you are the one he wants to be with.
2007-07-05 11:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by KS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is easier said than done, but DUMP HIM!!!! I see a pattern here and it's not good. He's a jerk, pure and simple.
2007-07-05 11:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by tangerine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl!
2007-07-05 11:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋