Is there anyone you would like to say sorry to before you pass away?
Or have you already said sorry to someone you hurt?
Do you think 'feeling sorry' is enough, without actually saying it? Or if you talk through how sorry you are with a third party, is that enough?
If you pass away & you don't say sorry, what are you taking with you?
2007-07-05 02:04:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
PS
I did say sorry. This is just a general question about the subject of being/ saying sorry.
:-)
2007-07-05 03:04:42 · update #1
I have no baggage and no regrets. There is nothing to say.
Self-forgiveness is how. Let it go.
~ Eric Putkonen
2007-07-05 02:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is one person I can't say sorry to even though I woish I could, but I don't have the courage yet. I think I will have to wait until; I see them on the other side. Maybe then they will understand. I think it will all become much clearer then, in a way that it just cant right now. I hope that makes sense. Its almost as if just being on the other side, will put a different light on it all & I will be able to say sorry because I know it will all be ok. On this side it won't.
2007-07-05 02:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were dying yes I would say sorry to those I hurt my whole life. When my mom was dying, she said sorry to me but I felt she didn't have to. I said sorry to her if I was ever a bad child. I said a lot of things to her. She had cancer and she thought she'd die on my birthday, so I got on my knees and asked her to forgive me and told her she was the best mom ever. She died 2 days after my birthday. People should say sorry and also say they love the person before it's too late. I did and I don't have any regrets cause she died knowing I was sorry and that I loved her. I would want people to know how sorry I am and how much I loved them even if I didn't show it. Have a blessed day!
2007-07-05 02:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 03:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to say sorry to someone, surely it is better to do it now, rather than wait until the last minute. Feeling sorry is no use whatsoever unless you express that to the person you have hurt.
2007-07-05 02:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I apologise as and when it is approprate. If I haven't said sorry for something before I die, then I either didn't have time, or I didn't feel I needed to. As for what am I taking with me, just my decomposing body, where the nutrients will feed the fruit on the tree that they will plant above me.
2007-07-05 02:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Spawnee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY is a five letter word, an apology is from the heart, it is like going to confession and getting 2 our Fathers and 29 hail Marys, does that absolve u NO, really meaning it then u can forgive yourself. ANYBODY CAN SAY SORRY BUT TRUE REGRET FROM THE HEART TO THAT PERSON AND YOURSELF THAT IS THE ANSWER.
2007-07-05 02:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a brilliant question and one we would all do well to ponder deeply.
Moment by moment we die and are reborn. Moment by moment we should wipe the slate clean so that we carry no burden into the future.
Every day. Sorry, sorry.
Every day, Thankyou, thankyou.
2007-07-05 02:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can say that there is no one that I need to say sorry to...I would not hurt someone I loved, and anyone else would deserve it....I agree some people hold grudges and the like for years and become bitter people...but thats not for me.
2007-07-05 02:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Knownow't 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd want to apologize to my kids for messing them up ... its something all parents do, mess up their kids lol
But other than that, I'm already real good at saying I'm sorry ... it's easy once you get the hang of it lol
2007-07-05 02:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to say your sorry you should do it now, not everyone makes it to a death bed some of us are destined for the express lane.
2007-07-05 02:08:24 · answer #11 · answered by Quantrill 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋