Would you go?

Question

Okay this is a really weird situation I'm in, but I'd like some people's opinions so I will explain. And no I am not crazy.
Ever since I was about 8 I've had this reoccuring dream, well it's not the exact same dream, but all my dreams have been based in this one town. Like every single dream. I will be doing different things in each dream, but it's all in this same mysterious place. Anyway, I moved over to the UK from NZ about a year ago, and I was just watching some travel vids on the UK to get an idea of what I'm getting myself into and there were little video snippets of pretty places, and come hum come ho there was the place in my dreams! It said it was in Cornwall, but didn't say specifically where. Now after a lot of research I have found this 'dream' place, but the problem is I'm only in the UK for another month before my visa expires and I'm going home, and funds are really, REALLY tight at the moment. Do you think I should go see this place, or just give it a miss?

Answer 1

I hate to tell you what to do, I will though tell you if It was me, I would HAVE To go. It seems like..you are destined to be there, like you are linked to it in some way.

As a child I had a reoccurring dream about the city of Buffalo, its architecture, actual buffalo's etc.

At the age of 30 I met a guy (online) from Buffalo. Over time...I married him , and it is the best thing that ever happened to me!

I honestly believe now that my dreams as a child were pointing me towards him in someway.

Give it some thought.
XOXO
Good Luck.

Answer 2

all of these answers are sort or wrong this is why you had the dream...

Most dreams contain messages that serve to teach us something about ourselves. Unfortunately many a times we forget what we dream about as we go about our daily routine. With recurring dreams, the message may be so important and/or powerful that it just will not go away. The frequent repetition of such dreams forces you to pay attention and confront the dream. The dream is trying desperately to tell you something. Such dreams are often nightmarish or frightening in their content, which also helps you to take notice and pay attention to them.

Recurring dreams are quite common and are often triggered by a certain life situation or a problem that keeps coming back again and again. These dreams may recur daily, once a week, or once a month, but whatever the frequency, there is little variation in the dream content itself. It usually points to a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present.

The repetitive patterns in your dream can reveal some of the most valuable information on yourself. It may point to a conflict, situation or matter in your waking life that remains unresolved or unsettled. Or some urgent underlying message in your unconscious is demanding to be understood.

Following are some tips in overcoming your recurring dreams.

1. In understanding your recurring dream, you must be willing to accept some sort of change or undergo a transformation.

2. You must be willing to look within yourself and confront whatever you may find no matter how difficult it my be.

3. You must be able to look at the dream from an objective point of view. Try to get pass the emotional and reactive elements of the dream and get down to the symbolic images. Many times dreams are masked by elements that are disturbing preventing you to delve any deeper. This is a defense mechanism that your unconscious may be putting up.

4. Be patient. Do not get discourage if these dreams still recur even after you thought you have come to understand them.

5. Learn to accept yourself truly and fully.

Often times, once you discover what your recurring dream is trying to tell you, these dreams will change or altogether disappear.

Answer 3

I would go, after all you may never get back to the UK again. If you don't go, you will always regret it. What if you find you can really be happy in Cornwall and there are opportunities for you? Please go. Take this from a 63 year old who only regrets what she passed up.

Answer 4

there is a really valid reason you keep having this dream, I think if you look hard enough at your funds you will find a way to go, or if you are mean't to go the funds will fall into your lap, if not you were not mean't to. enjoy the trip

Answer 5

Not if it were going to adversely affect my visa status or finances. If you could get some sort of extension on your visa and economize in other areas to compensate, then, yes.

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Answer 6

Go for it and see wheter u have the dejavu... its a gift u know..

Answer 7

I think you will have the most biggest regret if you don't go.

Answer 8

i'd go it might help