Have you ever felt horrible on your second day at a new job. This morning I'm feeling those horrible feelings! I haven't made any friends yet, and I'm afraid that I won't be liked. I need some advice on how to not let these feelings get the best of me today, and the next day.............
Thanks!!
2007-07-05 01:24:55 · 8 answers · asked by babysteppin2003 3 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment ➔ Administrative and Office Support
During the first three months of your new job, your new boss will be getting to know you and taking note of your performance. In today’s marketplace there is no hesitation to terminate a relationship with a worker who isn’t living up to expectations. Since most companies have a ninety-day probationary period, this is a crucial time for you as a new employee.
GET TO KNOW THE WORK TEAM FIRST
During the first three months, keep a low profile and learn the workplace politics and pecking order. Find a secretary who can explain the chain of command. Listen and learn but don’t get involved in the politics.
LEARN THE CORPORATE CULTURE
There are lots of rules within a corporate environment, both formal and informal, like forms of address, unofficial dress code, the chain of command, etc. Pay attention to them if you want to fit in and be accepted. Don’t be embarrassed to ask questions. Ask “smart” questions but do not pester your peers with too many of them or you will appear incompetent.
WHAT DOES THE BOSS EXPECT OF YOU?
Make sure you are doing things the way your boss wants them done. Find out what his expectations are. Don’t guess; ask what he considers important. If necessary make a list of your job duties. Ask your supervisor for confirmation that you are in the right track. Remember there is an expected learning curve, but at the same time you must be demonstrating that you are achieving your goals.
FIND A MENTOR
Top executives often have a mentor – someone who is several levels higher on the corporate chart. Find someone whose judgment you can trust and who can help you grow in the company.
Follow these tips and plan for the future the moment you start this job. Employment is a marketplace right now. Gone are those days when loyalty and hardwork translates to job security. Stay but be ready to leave your employer anytime. Everything you do and learn on this job is preparation for the next one. Each job will take you up the ladder of success, and your responsibility and earning potential will increase.
Peace and blessings!
2007-07-05 01:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, your feelings are there for one of two reasons
1)You already know that this job is just not going to work out and your brain and body are trying to tell you so. (Or)...
2)You feel out of place because you are still in the new job learning curve. For non technical jobs it normally takes two full weeks to get down the basics of a new job. However, some employers are not willing to wait that long. Just get up and get to work early...and pay attention...so they won't need to repeat things to you. Congrats on the new Job. And best wishes.
2007-07-05 01:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Greek Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Bring some personal artifacts with you to work and place them strategically on your desk. Print out some pictures of scenes you like or funny office appropriate cartoons, or even some positive quotes and post them on your desk. These will eventually become conversation pieces. Also, tune into an internet radio station. Listening to your favorite tunes may brighten your day and even start an office sing-a-long.
2007-07-05 01:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
just put in mind that the reason why u havent found or met a fren at work yet because u are too amusing and look very smart thats why they kinda hesistate..
but tom. they will have the guts
2007-07-05 08:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Is allright!
Everyone out their is to earn a living and they may be doing work..........do not worry with time people will approach.
Be at peace be comfortable.
For them also it is difficult to get used to a new employee.
Just go on the way you should, But remember just don't be Loud!
Cheers!
2007-07-05 01:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Life won't Stop Nor Should U 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is expected for you to be nervous the first few days.
just relax and do your job to the best of your ability
buck
2007-07-05 10:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE YOUR SELF TIME . YOU GOT THE JOB RIGHT ? EVERYTHING WILL FALL INTO PLACE AND THE YEARS WILL JUST FLY BY. GOOD LUCK.
2007-07-05 01:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just do your job. That should be enough.
2007-07-05 01:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Longrove 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋