Under which circumstances would you if at all? How about if you found them in bed with someone else?
2007-07-04 21:59:17 · 24 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I have never hit and never will hit my wife, however if I were to catch her in bed with another man, I know that I would not be able to guarantee his safety.
2007-07-04 22:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Hendo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fall on the side of its never okay to do this no matter if its the man hitting the female or vice versa. I know it can be tempting but at the end of the day its not a solution to anything.
I am however on my own in the fact that I think equal rights should stretch to everything and not just to the things us women like them to cover. So if a female hits her partner in my mind the partner has the right to restrain her/push her away without being called a brute.
2007-07-05 05:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get into a lot of trouble no matter what the cirumstances are. A slap, push or grabbing someones wrist can land you in jail these days. You'd be silly to try it..I whacked my partner in the arm one day. Nothing aggressive, he just annoyed me.He looked at me and said 'don't EVER hit me or I will hit you back'! Fair enough I say... I have a young Indian couple living in my apartment block. Twice I have seen him hit her 5 -10 times around the head. (shes usually visibly upset before this) It made my blood boil. What kind of man hits a woman? And WHY do they tolerate it? I would only hit someone if they hit me first, and it depends how violent they were. Usually I just walk away...for good.
2007-07-05 05:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To hit someone is something I wouldn't do unless someone I love/know is getting physically hurt. I even didn't hit when I found my ex in bed with a girl I knew from work. I just packed my stuff and told him I would get the rest later. If I would hit I would lower my self at his level.
2007-07-05 05:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sylvie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way regardless of circumstances would i hit a woman and to say if you found them in bed with someone else well it takes two to tango so why only hit your partner they are both as bad as each other but live and let live is what i say
2007-07-05 05:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I play fight, I grew up with 2 brothers and was always starting things... I grew up watching wrestling on tv and am very playful and feisty. I always start but it is normally dead legs and pressure points.. We do this in fun and he always goes easy on me..
In a mean way no I have never hit to really hurt him. If i found him in bed with someone i think i would go after her first... i dont think i could really get any good serious shots in on him... i would probably smack him one across the face even though it is not right.. but i have a lil temper... I dont think guys should ever hit girls to hurt them. i know it is a double standard but strength wise i am at least 5x weaker.. so it is always unfair... i dont know.. thats just me.
2007-07-05 05:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by PuffinLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never in a lifetime would I hit a woman, for it is absolutely wrong, even if you caught them in the bed with another person. They will regret it, and they are a bad person for committing adultery, but never should you hit a woman, that would just stoop you down to the level of a loser.
2007-07-05 05:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife gave me two slaps when she was pregnant and I did not answer back.I have told God that even if I am angry as what I donot want to lay my hands on her.If I find my wife with someone on bed I cannot lay my hands on her.I will get the two up and ask her and the man to pack her things out to his house, God may change my mind because He forgives, I can also forgive.It will really be painful but when you forgive you have to forget what that person did to you for it to make sense.
2007-07-05 05:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regaurdless of what happend or happens i would never hit my partner. i have seen my parents fight when they were together and it doesnt accomplish anything. hearing about a man hitting a woman in an act of violence makes me furious if i had the chance i would beat the man with in an inch of his life. when the **** can people grow up and learn to talk there **** out like adults?
2007-07-05 05:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by Stumpy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why,but its different for girl's...They can seam to get away with hitting their partner in which ever situation..But if a guy did it,it seams to be really wrong..whether or not she cheated on him...
Anyway..
Yeah,i've hit my partner but not because of anything bad,just seam to find the urge to hit him dureing..*ya kno*.. :-)(he dont mind lol)
2007-07-05 05:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by baby_lou_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋