k i dont get it....?

Question

there was this guy who kept coming to my work place and trying to get my number and he went out of his way blah blah blah so i finnaly told him to give me his number and ill call so i called him two days ago and we talked and as the convo came to an end he asked if the number i called with was ma number and asked if it was alright to call or text me and i said yea sure....so its been two days and he has yet to call me i mean i dont get it like what is he thinking...

Answer 1

Ok my question to you is how did the conversation go and wait dont go crazy lol just make your self be more important and you wont care if he calls cuz your more of a valiuble person to be talking to then he should call at anytime but you not calling him and worrieing about him will make him courious enough to call back and guys like to do this to girls to test them to see if your worth calling and you know in your mind that your worth calling so go on with you diva self girl !! lol =) and with you haveing high self confidence then he will call back but if he dosent call back then hes not worth even calling lol =)

Answer 2

Well, if he liked you so much and worked so hard to to persue your number, he'll do the same to call you, to ask you out, etc. If not... don't worry bout it. Let it go. Actions speak.

Keep your heart and emotions to yourself unless there is a solid form of security to rest them on.

Maybe he lost interest after talking to you. Maybe he was just feeling you to see how "easy" you were. Who knows. But does'nt matter. Don't waste your time even thinking about it.

If there's true interest, actions will speak. But don't give anything unless the actions DO speak.

Just be you, keep doing what you do, if you really mean something to someone the evindence will speak.

Answer 3

You messed up when you did not give the number when it was first asked for. Perhaps that is why he is trying to play hard. Refusing the number at first makes him think you already had someone, reason being why you asked for him number.

Answer 4

Who knows. sometimes guys play a game just to see who can get the most phone numbers. I wouldn't worry about it. If he calls, fine. If he does not call, it is his loss!! Someone else will.

Answer 5

here's the big scoop from all my 38 yrs on this planet about men,

... he isn't thinking... at least not yet, about you. Men are not multi tasked oriented and don't analyze everything to death like we do.

most guys would probably just call us 10min before for a date if they could get away with it.

Try not to worry about it, besides you are a great girl who will find much better than an *** playing games with you ;)

luck :D

Answer 6

maybe he doesnt want to sound/seem desperate, so he's waiting it out for a few days. although...if he bugged u so much for ur number in the first place that iiis kind of desperate.
However, maybe now he thinks he's "cool" because he has your attention so noooww he's waiting a few days to get back at ya.

:)

Answer 7

they're trying not to look obessed it's then unspoken rule once you get someone's number you wait for 3 days and call with a reason not just to chat.

Answer 8

ok, i think he likes you but he cant afford a phone-card for his phone. and...if it's a phone-card problem, then he would have come over to see you like daily. After two days? no call no txt, i think he has personal problems and you dont want to get involve.

Answer 9

He probably has a buddy there with him saying " wait, don't call too soon, she will think your desperate." Just wait it out, he will come around when his buddy tells him it's ok. good luck.

Answer 10

Maybe he started to feel that you don't really like him that much. Or maybe he's found someone else. Maybe he's shy. Or maybe he's totally forgotten and/or lost your phone number.