I am a guy also and i know most socity tell you that you should have had sex by now.I am waiting till i am in love but is this normal?
Also do girls find it weird?
2007-07-04 19:07:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GAH that's good! I think a girl would be lucky to have a guy wait like that rather than your typical manwhore in today's society.
2007-07-04 19:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are quite normal in reality. At your age about 1/3 of the guys who you know that claim the have had sex are lieing. I'm not sure why you think society tell you you shouldn't be a virgin. I guess I can see in some way TV and movies may make it seem that way. But TV and movies aren't real world. Trust me you are quite normal.
Most girl will find this quite normal and maybe even a refreshing change. A guy who's not trying to act like he's had sex and knows everything about it.
2007-07-05 02:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by TheOneAndOnlyBooger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm older than you and I'm still a virgin. There is nothing wrong with that because I'm taking my time to find my true love and to give it all to her. This is the common misconception that if you're still a virgin by a certain age that it should be laughed upon and be made into a joke. Why do you think you need to lose your virginity by age 20? See, this is exactly what's wrong with society nowadays. Losing your virginity should not be a sport to see who lose it first, second, and so on. It shouldn't be a race to see who finish first and if your last then you're an outcast. That is completely insane. You should lose your virginity when you have met that special someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
2007-07-05 02:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Version_Best 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, coming from a girl, i think you are doing a good job to wait. I am waiting for the my love, when he comes, lol. and I am almost 20 as well. But yes it is very normal, and I dont find it weird. I find it very sweet, good, and that is the best thing for a guy and girl.
2007-07-05 02:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by amber 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, you are not alone at being a virgin at 20. In fact, it is probably more common than you or society will have you believe. There are a variety of reasons why some people make it to their 30's before having sex for the first time. It could be that they are saving themselves for marriage. It could also be based on their own religious beliefs. It is one of those peer pressure/pop culture things taht make you believe that you gotta have your cherry popped before 20.
Of course if you make it to your 30's or 40's with you innocense intact, then there should be some concern on your part.....
2007-07-05 02:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really sweet when guys wait until they find love. It makes that first time all the more special. I don't find being a virgin at 20 weird at all. I am christian, so at my church we have this saying "true love waits."
2007-07-05 02:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kinopravda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is great that you are waiting for that special someone. I would personally never date another virgin though I had a really bad experience with that. He kept wondering what it would be like to be with someone else. We dated for almost 5 years, and engaged, and he ended up cheating because he always wondered what it would be like to be with someone else. I was so in love with him. I would never date someone that has not experienced sex with at least a few people, that way the curiousity would never be there to begin with. If you do wait, please don't cheat to find out what it is like with another person.
2007-07-05 02:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by mb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very normal, not weird at all. Most girls won't find this weird, they'll find it endearing! And if they do, then frankly, they're not the kind of girls one should be looking for.
Good for you for waiting for true love. Trust me, you don't want to lose it to someone you don't care about. You'll just end up regretting it almost instantaneously.
2007-07-05 02:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by a*perfect*teardrop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it weird. I have a guy friend that is 24 years old and is a virgin. I find it sweet, he waits for the right person.
2007-07-05 02:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a great life choice! I wish I would have had a man like you. If you feel you want to do it with the right person, it will be very special for both of you. So, follow your heart and your instincts...You will know when the time has come...Good luck finding the lucky one
2007-07-05 02:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by Orinoco River 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋