And you try to call them and no response back at all.What did I do wrong?
2007-07-04 18:52:46 · 10 answers · asked by badgirl05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been through the EXACT SAME THING numerous times. It's ridiculous. I'll never know what happened.
But I'm guessing that it is because they are too much of a coward to tell you to your face that they lost interest or found someone else.
If you did something wrong, trust me... you would've known and fixed it by now.
My ex and I were together for over a year... we talked about marriage all the time. Even HE stopped talking to me OUT OF NOWHERE. I was not needy, I let him do what he wanted, I trusted him, etc. EVERYONE knew I put up with so much and that they wouldn't have if THEY were with him. I was the best girlfriend a girl could be. Well, I ended up finding pictures of him all over another girl... He wouldn't even pick up his phone. I wanted to break-up with him. So, I had to email him. I never received ONE WORD from him for months now. How could someone do this to someone after everything we've been through?? You think you know someone after 2 1/2 years.
Just know that God has a plan for you and have faith in Him to bring you the right one in His time. He will give you the hope and strength to carry on through ANYTHING. You are a strong person. You'll will be okay. I promise.
If God brings you to it, He'll bring you through it.
And God doesn't take something away from you without giving you something better.
2007-07-04 18:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing. I am 33, I have been in many relationships, and also have been married. There are so many guys(girls, too) that are immature, and/or looking for the next hot thing, and don't care about a "real" genuine person, just a piece of ***. Sorry to be blunt, but I have found it to be true. If they don't call you back within a reasonable amount of time, they aren't worth yours(time).
2007-07-04 18:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by trancegoddess2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have short attention spans - especially young guys. He probably got sidetracked by a video game, or his buddy got a new car, or he got tickets to a baseball game. That reminds me, when does Halo 3 come out? Anyway, you probably did nothing wrong so don't worry about. He might be interested, he might not - but if you put pressure on him (why don't you call, why don't you talk to me), he'll never call.
2007-07-04 19:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by cornbreadsalad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't have the guts!
i recently met one.... no reasons, just plain a$$ of him. I didn't insist either. To hell with people like that! Move on & keep yourself intact. God has better plans & take it as a good favor on your part. He wasn’t worth at all anyway.
Karma will get back to him & it will be a thousand fold to your heartaches now.
2007-07-04 21:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you probably didnt do anything wrong...a lot of people, girls and guys, have a problem with confrontation and it's easier to ignore the situation then to deal with it...He probably just didnt think you were right for him and decided to move on without telling you...you are better off without him...please dont feel bad about yourself
2007-07-04 18:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Heather G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just something young guys go through...eventually he will grow up and mature.
2007-07-04 18:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they had sex with you and now he must move on to the next. so leave him alone you will only get in the way.
2007-07-04 18:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because most men are selfish pigs. you didnt do anything.
2007-07-04 18:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by raechelblueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they wanna hit it and quit it
2007-07-04 19:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Miguel C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its becuase they don't like you
2007-07-04 18:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by marievic m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋