Well new age dating has labeled this as my "buddy"...the benefits is usually referred to as casual sex if you will. Now what this entails is that you can have this person sexually, but neither of you trip out with each other because you are aware that this "buddy" or friend with benefits, may have someone else on the side too. Friend with benefits can also include being with someone married too....I call it nasty sugar coating and downplaying infidelity. My opinion...you dig. I'm not cool with it.... I'm a one man woman and don't like to share!
2007-07-04 17:53:48
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answered by shopthemadness 2
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It involves having casual sex with your so called friend. It's a rather sly cutesy way of people demeaning themselves for the benefit of being with each other while at the same time using a mask of friendship just for a reason to have sex. What it comes down to is just a cheap coy cop out that voids any true meaning or commitment that comes with a real worthwhile relationship. Just the newest craze for a segment of the human race to taint their souls and continue to defile and degrade themselves in order to achieve a temporary physical thrill that further dishonors the true meaning of a most precious gift that God bestows upon this mortal earthly progeny
2007-07-05 01:16:48
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answered by quantumview 5
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It means you are friend but you all have sex, not a relationship. They hook up for some sex and that's that. There is an understanding that they are not dating and can date other people. Usually once one gets in a relationship the benefits part stops but they are still friends and can hang out and so on.
2007-07-05 00:49:54
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answered by Prof. Dave 7
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Being Friends with benefits sounds great because its like you have a boyfriend but you could still mess around.
To tell you the truth, being Friends with benefits doesn't work because you get so attached with the guy that if you see him with another chick you'll get sooooooooooo jealous. Before you get one, THINK ABOUT IT TWICE!
good luck
2007-07-05 00:52:53
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answered by Anonymous
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It's someone you like enough to be friends with that you also have sex with but are not in a "relationship" with. It can be tough, because it implies that there are no romantic feelings on either side to go with the sex. If you don't want the romance part and are very honest, it can be very satisfying for both parties.
2007-07-05 00:49:51
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answered by gwennyveer 2
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basically frds with benefits is someone who you just sleep with, no cuddling no i love you no movies no saying i want you to meet my girlfriend. Just using each other for sex basically. Just be careful cause one of them ends up liking the other one and they end of getting hurt. Also be careful by using protection cause if you decide to have frds with benefits it doesn't mean there tied to you, so they can sleep with you one night and sleep with another girl the next day. So its not like a couple were there only tied to the g/b friend
2007-07-05 00:50:51
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answered by Anonymous
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it means you will have sex with no strings attache meaning he uses you for sex but is looking for some one else to date so while hes looking for miss right he does not have to worrie about not having sex when he finds some one to date then you are put to the side until she dumps him then he will call you for the friends with benefits again until he finds someone else
2007-07-05 00:59:24
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answered by kaye j 3
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It simply means that the two of you have a sexual relationship (the "benefits") - with No Strings Attached
2007-07-05 00:48:22
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answered by kr_toronto 7
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CHARGE THIS TO THE GAME, it means that two people can get together knock the boots without being involved in any type of relationship playa.......... GAME RECOGNIZE GAME.
2007-07-05 01:19:15
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answered by 1diva 1
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A friend with benefit is pretty much a friend/buddy that you get to sleep with, no strings attached.
2007-07-05 00:47:57
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answered by Jazziland 2
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