i am extremely shy i am 16 years old and a girl.
i cant have a normal relationship with a guy because everytime he asks me to hang out im to scared to go to his house because im scared it will be akward. I am definitly way to scared to go on date because i cant even look people in the eys when i talk to them and i cant eat around people i dont know because im to nervous. how will i ever ber able to meet anyone let alone date them? its taking over my life
2007-07-04 16:54:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling, please don't waste your time worrying about silly things like this. You are special. God only made a few people who are reserved in everyway and you're one of them. This is a gift not a curse. Most girls (as I once was) are so insecure they're willing to lay themselves down for any show of attention. You, on the other hand, will know when the man you will love forever comes into your life, because you will immediately know a comfort level like you've never known before. And it will be with him AND his family. Life is unpredictable, but forever love is not. Love is not mean, abusive or uncomfortable. Embrace this trait and know this is God's way of saying "not now". YOU ARE SPECIAL.
2007-07-04 17:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being out with people more. You obviously don't have great social skills. Try widening your horizon first before persuing a relationship. I hate to say it,but most 16 or older guys don't like people who can't function in the relationship,and will only stay with it for so long.
You should consult a professional about your behavior,they have a name for it I'm sure.
2007-07-05 00:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to practice.Like with looking people in the eye well start off with your family and really close girl friends you have try eating in front of them to.Don't worry when your eating or something everybody eats and talks so you are no different.once you have practiced with your Friends then try with guys.Also if you pick good people to hang around the pressure really wont be there as much.It also sounds to me like guys already like you so when they talk to you they will probally be Happy if you talk back. So good luck.
P.S when I said to talk to your girl friends I meant your friends that are girls.Don't worry I'm straight
2007-07-05 00:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by guitar freak 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to confront yourself and decide that this is not the way you want to be --- i too was shy -- antisocial as described by others then went on to teach and run seminars --- i just did it ---- then found out i was not really all that shy --- i just preferred to be in different company ---- so at first force yourself to meet new people then you will find it is fun ---- best wishes
2007-07-05 00:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a double date with some other friends or hang out in a group so it wont be so awkward
2007-07-05 00:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate luver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with in a group...it will take away the awkwardness.
2007-07-04 23:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by futureteacher0613 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
poor baby im shy too, but you have to let people know your there, it helps ALOT, i cant get up in front of 30 at my tae kwon do practice without my hands shaking when is it back down.
2007-07-04 23:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by PrinceKattJohnnyDepp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh, sweety.. take it easy, may i know if u mix with u girl frens wud u react the same? if not, whenever there's guy fren, tact along with 1 of ur girl fren so u wun feel so uncomfortable...
2007-07-05 00:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and think of a thing that makes you happy, then your brain will take over, because it seems like you're nervous because you over think the situation so it is best to relax
2007-07-04 23:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...gain control of your life...
no matter how shy you are..every girl has strenght in them. i was te shyest person..but i pulled the courage out of me.
the best person for you to date is either someone..equally shy..so they will understand...or a very outgoing person who will get you out of the closet...start practicing conversations with yourself..
good luck
be strong
2007-07-04 23:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋