I've been seeing this woman for only a few months. I find her very attractive. She works at a local nightclub as a cocktail waitress. She says she's into Asian men and has date previous dates and boyfriends with them. It seems I match her type of guy. She also tells me that I look so sexy when I smile at her.
Whenever I see her, we talk very briefly, sometimes I buy her a drink, and we give each other a friendly hug whenever I step into the club and say goodbye. I stop by every once in awhile just to meet with her. She always tells me she misses me when I haven't seen her within a week or two.
Recently, she gave me her # so we can talk whenever we're not busy. However, I'm not sure if she gave me her # to talk casually or to make plans to see each other again. I'm kind of confused about this situation.
From what I observed, is she into me? Is this a sign of a crush?
2007-07-04 16:53:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she digs you and wants to get to know you. Just for the record...unless you're a millionaire, I doubt she wants you for your money.
2007-07-04 16:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this girl wants you. but that's how this girls who works in a club have so many guys they like.It's a place where all kinds of men met after work to drink or get drunk. So she must be getting used to looking at men & luring them.If I'm not mistaken, she should be hard to get to get respect, how come that she was the one giving her number first if she is genuine.You should be the one to pursue her slowly & then gave your no.During my days that's the tradition but now modern the women are the one chasing the male population.So just go out with her & find out if she's in to your money.If she does then she will ask for money more & more! but i am not judging this girl Because I don't know both of you. It's up for you to judge later on down the track.
2007-07-05 00:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by shines56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have worked in night clubs in old town scottsdale for a few years and what I have learned about people who work there is that part of your job i making connections, being popular. If you know a grip of people and attract a grip of people then your place of work make a TON of money. So she is probably really good at making guys, girls, anything, interested in her, and therefore interested in making it rain in the club. If you think you can make an honest woman out of her then you have your work cut out for you. I hope I am wrong cus you sound like a chill guy, and if you truly are a chill guy then ask her out. If she says yes, bomb. If she says no BOMB! Plenty of fish in the sea, really though. Try this, bring a hotter girl into her club and tell the club girl you are with the hotter cooler, and badder chick then she is. It works, trust me.
2007-07-05 00:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by repscottsdale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is liking a lady, he is not thinking like you have described in your question. If you do not desire her company , do not respond. But if you are attracted to her, what exactly is your problem. Shower her with your attention and date her, yes this will not be cheap. I don't think your liking her cause there should be an anticipation and exhileration to connnect-------not paranoia. Find a girl that does not make you suspecious, and go for it, she'll rock your world.
2007-07-05 00:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yall are taking it a bit slow. If you think you should make your own desision because the internet is not always right. If you think you are taking it too slow then tell her you should just be friends. Try to seek other people that you dont worry about this question. I hope I helped.
2007-07-05 00:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by SAS wildcat cheerleader(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be confused, just take everything as it is. once you start analysing **** in a relationship (especially early on) is when you start screwing **** up.
She gave you her number so you guys can talk when you're not busy..
so...call her up when you're not busy.
if you guys aren't doing anything at the moment ask if she's hungry (say you're starving and are about to grab something) see if she wants to come.
take it as is
2007-07-05 00:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Ask her out, somewhere besides the club where she works. Talk to her in a different environment. Get to know her. She is in to you, otherwise whe would not have given you her number. Call her.
How does she know you have money?
2007-07-04 23:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by JustAskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that she likes you
you guys were talking casually before she gave you the # so why would she give you the # do do the stuff you were already doing
id say she wants to see you again
good luck
2007-07-04 23:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Charles B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her , talk , and see if she wants to meet up with you ,,,outside of the club situation.
2007-07-04 23:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach with caution. hard to say because its her job to get people to buy her drinks, if i'm right. i'm not saying shes just using you or anything, but stay a friend and see where it goes from there.
2007-07-04 23:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by cellie_mania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋