I'm not old per say i'm 19. I have noticed that i am not really into anyone anymore. WHen i was in highschool i could just fall instantly in love with someone. Now i go on like 5 or 6 dates and i'm still not attracted to them. this has happened twice in the last month since i broke up with my old bf. i don't really think it was because of the reacent breakup because we were on the rocks since febuary
2007-07-04 16:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you are getting more selective.
It is very easy to fall in love with the right person, no matter what your age is.
2007-07-04 16:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by m15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is older? 30 - 40 - 50 - 60 - 70 - 80? They all feel young, and want to feel in love.
It is just that you are a bit more experienced, and have begun to choose. Great!!!
Feel free to choose the really nice, uncomplicated person that will be caring and nice to you, in a responsable way.
The vein, good looking, cool guy with the suntan, can be the greatest idiot in real life.
Look around, and you will see simple, friendly smiles, and interesting and warm conversation, and surely it will be much nicer to fall in love with him, than the others.
Cheer up!
All the best.
2007-07-04 16:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by tango bailado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think its the oppsosite cuz when your young you know its no hurry so u dont worry so much...But when your older you start thinkin, hey, i dont got a whole lot of time to do this stuff anymore...Youll know when u meet the right person, u just havent been finding him.
2007-07-04 16:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
age has nothing to do with it.iam 58 and i fell in love with the woman i have now. you say you can fall for a guy on a date, them maybe your old memories are coming back and you wont let go. its over dear, let it go and get out in the real world.
2007-07-04 16:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love becomes easier to find as the years go by, because you have become able to discern puppy love. The longer you wait, the more mature you become. Love may be blind, but when you are more mature, you will find that true, mad, deep love is easier to find.
Good luck finding the one!
2007-07-04 16:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely. As one grows older, one's persective of love and expectations of other people changes and can be more of a cynic when it comes to love because of other influences as well. When one is younger, everything is nice and rosy and less of a cynic so falling in love is much easy.
2007-07-04 16:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it is not harder to fall in love the older you are --- i feel for my lady the first time we met (so did she by the by) and my youngest daughter is over 19 :D
2007-07-04 16:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, when you are older you just know what the real love is, and your heart has been broken too many times
2007-07-04 16:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you should be attracted to everyone? That's NOT normal.
If nothing's happening after a couple dates... be fair to yourself and the other party and move on...
2007-07-04 16:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you "older" honey? oh, please....19 is a baby....relationships get more complicated as you age because kids, like your age are into infatuation and lust, grown ups are into love and marriage. for this, you don't choose just anyone.
2007-07-04 16:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋