I am a guy by the way. The last time i talked to this girl was in the 7th grade (she moved) we used to be best friends (or just really close). I never made a move on her (give me a break i was in the 7th grade). Recently i have found her on myspace (now in the 11th grade) and we have IM'd each other a few times and it turns out she is like the perfect girl for me. She makes me laugh and I love how i can make her laugh too. Plus she is really attractive. My problem is that i am really busy with a job, and school, and tennis that i can't have a gf right at this time. So my question is what can i say (in general) so that we can be close friends, but not in a bf/gf kinda manner? I mean can i really be funny or should i only talk to her once in a while, or should i talk all day, or what?
2007-07-04 16:31:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just keep talking with her. just talk to her like you normally would. not any less or any more. if u feel like you want to be more than friends any time soon, hint at it. chances are she might be in the same boat.
2007-07-04 16:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her as much as you can --- that keeps the connection going and you can get a feel for how she considers you --- a friend or something more --- and you really need to get your priorities in order --- what is more important your relationship with her or things that will change or become irrelevant in a short time --- best wishes
2007-07-04 16:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋