the conversation has made him sexually excited...then plays like the girl is not what got him excited ---just her conversation---Is that possible. Could it be true that I didn't excite him but my conversation made him horney???
I don't see how he can separate the two ideas.
Either I'm hot to him or not!
Tell me what you believe.
2007-07-04 16:26:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the conversation is face to face, it is impossible to separate the two no matter what he says. And do not be surprised if he makes a move towards intimacy at some point during the conversation.
If the conversation is telephonic or by email, do not let him kid you. he is thinking what he would like to be doing to you as you chat.
So in reality the two cannot be distinct things
2007-07-04 17:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by scotishbob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the conversation is about? IF you guys are talking about geology then it is definetly you that he got exited about. I mean how exited can you get about rocks. I mean if you are a geologist it can be exiting but not sexually exiting. If on the other hand you where talking about something of a sexual nature then yes he was exited about the topic and not you. Also, people can fall in love with personalities. There is physical attraction and there is personality attraction. That is you fall in love with the way a person expressses himself/herslef or some quality that makes them sexy. So, he coulkd be saying he founds you attractive by the way you express yourself. A compliment. A third option is that he is lying. He likes ya but is shy. Kind os like "nah not me" but internally meaning "yes yes me". Boys do this kind of things. Deny the thruth even if it is what they want because we as boy get afraid of rejection. For example If I say I find you very pretty you may or may not take offense to that. You might reject my honesty and I may get hurt. If I alternatively say that the way you fixed your hair today along with those earings make you look pretty today" then I'm giving you a compliment which is more indirect because is not personal. I'm not saying that I find you attractive. I'm saying that the conbination makes you attractive. So, my chances of getting a possitive response is greater even if what I would really like to say is that is not the hair or the earing but you that I like. Yes, there is a lot of psycolgy involve.
2016-05-18 03:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to separate the two --- your words can create an image that may have nothing to do with reality or appearances
2007-07-04 16:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its possible that it can just be the conversaTion..
however there might be a possibility that its both you and your talks but he doesnt wanna admit!
2007-07-04 16:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋