I am in my thirties and I like to go to strip clubs and spend my money on lap dances. I am obsessed with sex and it has become a serious addiction. I never meet real girls in real life. All I have is my strip club addiction, the internet, and other perverted habits. I feel lost. Is this normal ?
2007-07-04 16:01:46 · 55 answers · asked by Black Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not normal to me/ So many other things you could have spent that much money on.
2007-07-04 16:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If it were normal you wouldn't be asking, now, would you?
You need to go to see a therapist. You are obsessed/addicted by your own admission.
You sound like a very very lonely person, and I know that you could be so happy if you could figure out why you feel the need to isolate yourself so.
Rather than hanging around the computer, the perverted habits and the strip clubs, how about getting out of the house to do something where you can interact with people and not pay them; to get used to being with other people so that you can feel more comfortable with yourself?
How about exercising, joining a bicycle club, taking ballroom dancing, going to church, joining a card club? Surround yourself with wholesome activities and people. Redefine yourself to yourself. Learn that you have every reason to believe in yourself and that you don't need to pay someone in order to be worth talking to.
2007-07-04 16:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by granniegrump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Sex addiction, vastly simplified, is problems with intimacy. Sounds like a dead ringer for you. There are several 12-step programs SA, SAA, SLAA and SCA that deal with sexual addiction. Pick one that works best for you. Usually recovery includes a combination of therapy and 12-step programs but doesn't have to. Hope this helps.
2007-07-04 16:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not normal. You could have a wonderful life if you used that money wisely. Instead you are throwing it away on sexual fantasies. Surely you must know that these women have no interest in you other than the desire to part you from your money. They are drug addicts and prostitutes and you are bankrolling their lifestyles.
Please get therapy to find out why you are on this self destructive path. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you.
2007-07-04 16:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that's normal....Funny, but not normal. Unless you're ridiculously ugly, you should clean up your act and find a real girl. Preferably, a nempho so she can enjoy your sex addiction. I'm sure they're out there s o m e w h e r e. Good Luck, and for now SEX THERAPY.
2007-07-04 16:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by LASS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need professional help bigtime. Spend the $ on therapy and maybe you can live a normal life and meet a normal girl. This is NOT normal. This is obsession. Get some help and find normal happiness.
2007-07-04 16:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by rkmg56 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not normal, you need counseling to overcome this or you are going to ruin your life and end up all alone and broke. That is so sad that any man has to pay for sex, or a lap dance or just looking at women or porn. You need help and you need self respect and some morals. No woman would want you now. You are definitely lost my man, you need to get help quick.
2007-07-04 16:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
properly, in case you have the money then pass forward!! through fact to me $50,000 is ALOT of money and that i might crap myself if I controlled to spend that plenty on strip golf equipment. yet once you could handle to pay for that kind of element then why not? i'm advantageous if the different guy had further money like that, a strip club is the 1st place you will possibly discover them (a minimum of the boys i recognize)
2016-09-29 02:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by courcelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50000?! You have any idea what you can buy with that?
Try controlling yourself, no it's not normal and if you can't deal with it get help, before you end up with STDs.
I'm not going to blame you, though I don't go to strip clubs or watch porn, I have a very perverted mind, but I'm just a 15 year old boy with raging hormones, I know how to control myself.
2007-07-04 16:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Normal is such a subjective term. I don't really think it is healthy to just have strip clubs and the internet as your primary form of sexuality. there are a lot of people like you though. Some people are afraid of the reactions of real interactions with women. Maybe you should get some counseling.
2007-07-04 16:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by travelinbianca16 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
no! you need deliverance. You have a ticket to hell . Sorry to be blunt but it is true.
You need good Godly counselling. Go to www.doersoftheword.org and the pastor there has a toll free # you can call and he will counsel you or he has helpers that are capable of doing so.
He has a deliverance & healing ministry so he has seen many many miracles in his years of ministry.
Some one gave me this on here but for a differant reason. I have health issue. I haven't called yet but I plan to.
2007-07-04 16:08:35 · answer #11 · answered by Chhaya05 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋