Most guys don't keep their word when they say they're going to do something... especially when it comes to calling.
Been there, experienced that.
We were together for over a year and he decides to stop calling me completely outta nowhere. Being the good girlfriend I was, I trusted him and knew he had a good excuse. Well, eventually I found out he was cheating on me...
So, you are NOT overreacting when you say you are pissed at him for not calling you when he said he would.
2007-07-04 15:57:23
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answered by ( Kelly ) 7
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well, you're asking if you're wrong for being mad. No, I don't think so. he said he would call, and he didn't. good reason to be mad.
are you breaking up with him because he didn't call? maybe that would be over reacting.
but if he's ALWAYS doing this and you're just tired of it and maybe thinking there's some other girl in his life? then that wouldn't be over reacting either, but maybe it would be if you didn't have proof about the other girl.
Or he could ALWAYS do this but only because he's young, immature and hasn't made you his top priority and/or not taking the relationship very serious or as serious as you do?
now the question is:
Are you wrong for putting up with it and always complaining about it? Yes.
I would love to know which story it is. only because i had a similar situation with someone who was the immature type that didn't think about me as much as i thought about him. took me long enough to realize it but when i did, i ended it. and happily so! Good luck!
2007-07-04 23:05:54
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answered by beentheredonethat 2
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Whenever you wonder if you're wrong, ask other person, in this case your boyfriend if he wouldn't be upset if you did the same to him?
Of course you have a reason to be upset, I think we all deserve some respect and in case he really couldn't call you yesterday why did it happened again today? You deserve an explanation if not an apology.
2007-07-04 23:02:01
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answered by Lulu 4
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Well, it was inconsiderate for him not to call you when he told you he would, but sometimes things come up. I can see being annoyed, though, especially two days in a row. Don't let it ruin your day -- still go out and have fun with friends, etc. Then, when he gets around to calling and tries to apologize, just tell him, "Oh, you didn't call? Sorry, I didn't even notice, I was out with so-and-so." Make him think twice before taking you for granted!
2007-07-04 23:03:20
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answered by Anonymous
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no you are not wrong..he should have called you on time or atleast appreciate that you are mad and not to say you are over reacting..
my advise is to explain to him what you feel and tell him that you feel this shows that he doesn't respect yoru feelings..and if some thing like that happens again..you need to take an action..
all the best
2007-07-04 23:07:47
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answered by akramicoooo 1
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I suppose he din call you might be because he is too busy with his things and he was tired at the end of it.
You can give him a call if you lost your patience. But dun start yelling at him about why he din call or whatever. Talk to him sweetly asking if he is busy and he will be sweet back.
2007-07-04 23:20:14
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answered by Anonymous
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well maybe something came up and he couldnt call you but chances are he never intended to call...so whenever a guy tells u he is going to call dont wait by the phone for him...cause chances are he isnt going to call at all...
2007-07-04 22:57:55
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answered by lemes03 4
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No your not, he should call you when he says he will, dont sit around waiting for him next time he says he will call tell him by a certain time otherwise you may be out.
2007-07-04 22:57:28
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answered by ? 3
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No your not. If a guy says they are going to call then doesnt. You have every right to be mad. If nothing happened to him.
2007-07-04 22:58:05
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answered by Beth 3
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My dear... Use the K.I.S.S. method (Keep it simple, stupid!).
If he makes you suffer, make a beeline to the exit.
You don´t need to educate an ********. It doesn´t answer.
Find a nice guy that you can enjoy sharing nice things with.
2007-07-04 23:00:33
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answered by tango bailado 3
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