what should I do?

Question

I've been seeing this woman for only a few months. I find her very attractive. She works at a local nightclub as a cocktail waitress. She says she's into Asian men and has date previous dates and boyfriends with them. It seems I match her type of guy. She also tells me that I look so sexy when I smile at her.

Whenever I see her, we talk very briefly, sometimes I buy her a drink, and we give each other a friendly hug whenever I step into the club and say goodbye. I stop by every once in awhile just to meet with her. She always tells me she misses me when I haven't seen her within a week or two.

Recently, she gave me her # so we can talk whenever we're not busy. However, I'm not sure if she gave me her # to talk casually or to make plans to see each other again. I'm kind of confused about this situation.

From what I observed, is she into me? Is this a sign of a crush?

Answer 1

If she wants to talk whenever you aren't busy, I think she probably has a little bit of a crush on you. Maybe she wants to talk to you more to see how it goes? But, I say, go for it. =) From the information you gave, it seems like she's interested.

Answer 2

Duh? Why else would she give you her number? It sounds like you two have done the polite friends stuff long enough and she's ready to advance to the next level, maybe see each other outside of the club. Come on! She works at a club! If she looks nice like you say, then you can only imagine how many guys ask her for her number and WISH they could get a hug at the end of the night! Take it for what it is and try not to read too deeply between the lines. Enjoy whatever she's doing with this, as you two obviously have mutual feelings. If someone gave you a gift I suppose you'd think it was a bomb before you thought it might be a shirt or some cologne, huh? Good Luck with her, sounds like you're moving in a positive direction.

Answer 3

Hi, To solve your problem is quite difficult. Cause I am Asian guy. i know clearly about Asian woman. Sensitive, charmed but a bit of shy. And u see there is a little difference between Asian woman and others. If she let you know her#, that means you have a hope for long and serious relation. Of course you need to go step by step. And i think you need more time to see about her attitude... before expressing your mind. Good luck

Answer 4

Well... call her next time youre not doing anything and ask her.
Say, "Hi, (insert her name here), it's (insert your name here), would you like to go out sometime this week? Do you want me to come get you at the club/ bar/ whatever you said?" If she likes you like that, of course she'll be thrilled! I may be only 13, but I know these things. Good luck!

Answer 5

She's a bar girl. She gets paid to get men to come into the club to drink. You are the same as any other guy to her because you help her make money.

Answer 6

Call her!! Believe me...If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't gave you her phone #. You have nothing to lose. When you do call her, chat her up and then ask her out on a date. You'll know for sure her intentions after that. Good Luck sweetie!!

Answer 7

not every waitress give out her personal number to their customers, even for big tippers....gosh.

phone her and ask her out you silly goose :p

see how the date goes. most girls like the guys to make first move,...and she already give you so many signs.

Answer 8

IF SHE WASN' T INTO YOU SHE WOULD NOT HAVE GIVIN YOU HER NUMBER!!! YOU SHOULD CALL HER AN MAYBE YOU GUYS CAN GO ON A REAL DATE RATHER THAN JUST SEEING EACHOTHER AT THE CLUB!!!! I SAY GO FOR IT AND I WISH YOU THE BEST!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Ask her out and if she says no or blows you off... you'll know she does this with other guys at her club for bigger tips.

Answer 10

if i were you, i'd probably stop waiting for answers here and start calling her. you're very lucky to have found a person that you have shared interests with.

stop reading :) start dialing :)

good luck!