i know that many people say that love at first start isn't possible and that you learn to love but then how do you know who to love, if there truely the one that you belong with, the one that you want ot spend your life with, someone that will protect you and no matter what your love will always live on. is it even possible to find that person and do you know is it a feeling that you wil notice right away. i want to fall in love but wit hthe person that, i don't know, is ment to be the one. i'm really confused how will i know and will it be love at first sight? will he know that we're ment to be? can you please help me
2007-07-04 14:40:43 · 9 answers · asked by Rev 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Yes there is a such thing as love at first sight.
The only issue is that many times people's minds are so clouded with other things that they may miss it or never be in a place where this type of experience may come.
It is not a bad thing that some do not experience it. No more than it makes those better who do experience it. We all have to find our own way. The more time you are spending and even wasting looking for love you could have missed the opportunity.
We get caught up in the fairy tale of he has to be like this or she has to look like that. Many times your ideal person may not necessarily look the way you envisioned them to be. They may not do the things that you want them to do. You must open yourself up to the many possibilities of life. Let go of many of your preconceptions of who that person is and just live your life to the fullest.
Quite often love is found when you are not looking for it. Stop trying to make love fit in your schedule let it just be.
2007-07-04 15:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Flourqueen 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Depends. It can be love at first sight if the boy or girl is attractive or is well - behaved or good natured. or if the Boy/girl is ugly looking both lookwise or naturewise then perhaps the boy/girl would say love me or hate me but from a distance. Don't come near me. ewww......get away. Lol!!! I personally believe in what is written in the Holy Bible that a man can inherit wealth or money but getting a good wife is possible only with the blessings of GOD. So, love marriage or arrange marriage, doesn't matter to me. God has his blessings on me so I'm very much sure I'll end up having a good wife. Praise the Lord for that.
2016-04-01 08:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop looking at this from a highly romantic view and come down to earth and look at it in a more mature and healthy way.
We meet people and get to know them--over time. We see who they are through many situations and base our opinion on that, plus we look at how they treat us and how we feel around them.
You need to take things slow, at least get to know a guy for a year and a half (experts say) before you really fall for them. This takes maturity and intelligence on both your parts. Any guy that wants to rush into a relationship is looking for one thing and doesn't care about you. Remember that.
Relationships take work. Be sure you have one with a person that has that in mind with many similar views regarding life, money and love. People with too many differences have too many obstacles to overcome.
2007-07-04 14:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight doesn't exist...
However...what most people think of as Love at First Sight is a combination of lust, and physical attraction.
It can lead to something permanent, or it can lead to nothing... Find a man .. or woman, your preference will-out ... you can be friends with and trust with your heart. Build from there.
2007-07-04 14:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you're thinking of the classic fairy tale when you're speaking of "love at first sight" and couples who are "meant to be". Love at first sight doesn't happen. it's more like "Lust at first sight". Then you get to know the person and either it works out or it doesn't. Sorry.
2007-07-04 14:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in it. But, it's not "love" at first sight. It's attraction at first sight. It's impossible to be in love with someone you don't know yet.
Believe me.....when you are really in love....you'll know. You won't have to ask if you are. Don't push it. It will happen when it's supposed to happen. You actually sound very young so this is something you shouldn't even be thinking and worrying about.
2007-07-04 14:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For some people, it can be possible. I never really noticed my high school sweetheart ever until this one time at a trip that I looked and observed him for about 10 minutes and I knew that I was going to be with him.
2007-07-04 14:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this happened to me 32 yrs ago. I am still with that person. When this happens its like you feel you have found a long lost friend. You completely open up to them, tell them everything,you feel you know them immediately!
2007-07-04 14:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by colojeanette 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no love at first site............there is lust at first site
2007-07-04 14:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋