I am slowly starting to fall in love with this man. We have fun when we are around eachother. But yet he loves to sit there and just watch tv is he into me. When it is time to go to bed he wants to have sex. Am i just there for sex? How can you tell? I am lost and confused.
2007-07-04 10:37:15 · 8 answers · asked by aacoomes19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to say, sounds like you're his sex toy.
2007-07-04 10:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW.
When a person is into you, they do thoughtful things. Does this guy call you through the day just to say hi? Does he stop and get your favorite bottle of wine or beer just because he knows you will enjoy it? Do the two of you do anything outside of the bedroom? Actions DO speak louder than words, no man is perfect, but at least be a work in progress!
Good Luck
2007-07-04 17:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by survivor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell. All guys have different personalities.
I guess you could withold sex for a few nights and see what happens. If he's really into you, he'll give and let it go. If he's upset about it, or tries to get you drunk or stoned or whatever, it's time to pack up and leave.
2007-07-04 23:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds just like my situation. he loves to watch tv or play video games and when we "spend quality time" together at night, it's always sex. i used to wonder about that too, but when we spend actual time together during the day like out and about, i can tell that he does love me because of the attention he pays me and how he treats me and how he talks to me (tone) and everything. you just have to read his actions when he IS paying attention to you because most guys i know at night just love watching tv, playing video games, and having sex when it's time for bed. that's a guy for ya i guess. hope it helps.
2007-07-04 17:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by honu3218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is fine if you not sleep together anymore.You don't want to feel like a piece of meat.Don't satisfy his needs,because you have desires that are far greater than getting off.By him ignoring you until bedtime,he is showing how it will be down the line.So save yourself some uneeded anguish
2007-07-04 17:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give us some more information
there's not enough to go on [[how long have you been seeing him]] what do you do together?! just hang out at his house?
or go out?!Do you act like b/f and g/f?! details details :D
alot of guys just like watching TV...lolupdate your info about this situation...good luck!! :D
2007-07-04 17:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by manda102285 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex or making love ( in your situation, it should be making love) must come out naturally after teasing, hugging or flirting with your partner. sadly whats happening to you it seems he pictures you out as a sex object...
2007-07-04 17:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by jisdvo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read his emails, or check his phone for text (to another woman)
I done it before
2007-07-04 18:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋