okay i have know this guy i will call him mike . mike and i have been having sex for about 5years and then we borke up and now he is with someone else but he still wants to have sex and we have for about 3years and know i feel like i just don't know what to do about this. he tells me that he don't know if she is the one but only gods know this ..what i would like to know if what should i do? i just dont want to get hurt . please help
2007-07-04 10:24:43 · 13 answers · asked by JeN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey tell him you are not going to sleep with him while he is with this other girl. Me and My boyfriend broke up a while back and we were still having sex but neither one of us was with somebody else. Believe me if you continue to sleep with him while he is with this other girl you are going to wind up getting hurt. I just would'nt do it anymore.
2007-07-04 10:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by kelly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to hurt no matter what you do. That being said, you need to stay away from him. In the long run you want someone you can have a long term relationship with. Not someone who just wants to have sex with you. You are better than that. You deserve someone who will love you and respect you. I don't see that here.
2007-07-04 17:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you to his advantage, disrespecting you by having only sex with you while he is with someone else. That is just terrible, come on, I know you're worth more than that! Being sex buddies isn't a relationship, it's his dream come true.
Even if he says he isn't sure that she is the 'one', then why is he still with her? Think about that. If he stays with her and still continues to use you, dump his bum now before you get hurt any further.
Good luck hon.
2007-07-04 17:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should move on from this guy..he obviously has you dangling on a string as he can come back to you and have sex with you whenever he wants. He sounds like a player to me and you could do so much better. Why are you wasting your time with him? He will never committ to anyone, so relistically what are you getting out of this? Cut all contact with him and move on because there are plenty of more guys out there that would treat you like your supposed to be treated.
2007-07-04 17:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Flowerpower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenna the bum is useing you BIG TIME dump his sorry cheating ***, think the other girl knows about you,? if you take him back you will become "the other girl" your already the other woman. Dont waste your time and for gods sake I hope your getting blood tests
2007-07-04 19:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond Dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless his current girlfriend is okay with this, then I think you know this is wrong. It seems like he is getting what he wants. He tells you he doesn't know if she is the one so that he can keep giving you hope. I think you all ready know what to do.
2007-07-04 17:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by aj's girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you having sex with someone else's boyfriend have more respect for you're self you deserve better
2007-07-04 17:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by melody M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenna, My dear it is to late you are getting hurt this guy does not deserve your body or your heart ! He does not deserve one girl, much less two ! He is on the highway to hell please get off now !
2007-07-04 17:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenna....Jenna....Jenna....don'tt listen to all these dumbasses on here....if your enjoying sex with this guy then enjoy it....just tell him dont use god for an excuse...know what you want from him and get it....then move on when your ready....
2007-07-04 17:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jenna end this relationship now or you will get hurt.
2007-07-04 17:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by DR. Care 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋