My X married my 2nd cousin should I still be his friend?He knew we were relitives because he grew up with her,I am in another relationship right now but not married.Do you think after 25 years of marriage he wouldn't disrespect me like that?.
2007-07-04 10:00:32 · 8 answers · asked by cabbage-head 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Cabbage head; you should forgive and move on. That does not mean you have to be friends with the back stabbing jerk! And you should not be friends with him.
You should forgive him because it will release the hostility in your heart (if you mean it). Moving on is the best for you. Negativity breeds problems. He is not worth your health, mental or physical!
Live for tomorrow not for the past. Nana
2007-07-04 10:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if he is your ex it is his own business who he marries. You have no right to tell anyone who they can or cant marry. Let it go and move on with your life. And get a handle on your control issues.
2007-07-04 10:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
does it really matter if your 2nd cousin is happy? if she is happy with him then why do you still feel like this? be happy in your relationship and don't worry about him unless he does something to hurt your 2nd cousin.
2007-07-04 10:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and move on, but don't ever, ever forget the pain the heart ache he put you through.
2007-07-04 10:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you shouldn't forgive, because he sounds like a totla *** hole for marrying your own second cousin, and if he has no respect for you then all i got tell you girl is do better and worser to him!!!!
2007-07-04 10:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by A A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Focus on your new relationship. Being happy is the best revenge.
2007-07-04 10:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by Steffy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget it. i don't see how it's disrespectful anyway. what difference does it make who he married? you two are over.
2007-07-04 10:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you are asking this question so specifically already is the answer...from your heart...
2007-07-04 10:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by ogg08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋