the thang is i had sex with my b/f(for the first time) like 3 days ago and he has not coled ever since, i coled him last night and he goes like i did not have credit and i have been busy thats y i have not coled u.u think he is trying to bail on me or i am the one who is being impatient?
2007-07-04 07:47:41 · 19 answers · asked by Crazychick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he got what he wanted from you
he used you
now, he will look for another gal to have sex with
2007-07-04 07:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need a big hug HUGGG
i WILL offer help first and then answer the question=I suggest=help from above-in honor and care with commitment, any decent acting girl or guy should expect to be respected.
and this is a guide to help you understand= John 3 repent from sins, even one lie and ask Jesus in to be your friend and help you understand, amen.
this helped me most the words of Jesus spoken from heaven for us= Revelation 1:1 (chapter 1: verse 1) & 3:19&20 "As many as I love I rebuke and chasten, be quick therefore and repent (turn from your sins/even one lie, to me. Behold I stand at your heart's door and knock, if you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."
so i prayed "Jesus forgive me for my lust and lies, and other things and help me do better, be my friend, amen."
and truely Jesus became my best friend.
then your ready for the respect of others and the joy of life and heaven too=Seize the Day with Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Simplicity of the Good News
"It will always be true that the wisest course for the disciple is always to abide solely by the word of God in all simplicity." - THE COST OF DISCIPLESHIP
Putting God's Principles into action
We can make it all very difficult. In fact, we can make the good news obscure. We can make it an object of historical study, or the focus of a philosophical or ethical treatise, rather than a word which addresses us and challenges us to believe its precepts and to live accordingly. What is difficult about the Bible is not so much in understanding it, but in living it out.
What the Bible is saying
But God has blessed you, because your eyes can see and your ears can hear! Many prophets and good people were eager to see what you see and to hear what you hear. But I tell you that they did not see or hear. (Matthew 13:16-17)
Thoughts
The disciple wants to hear the Word of the Master and, because he or she loves the Master and is loved by Him, finds the Masters words believable and livable.
Praying the best for you too, David
after sex the marriage continues. OH HE TOLD YOU HE LOVED YOU AND MARRIAGE WASNT NEEDED.
without respecting another and marriage-he probably will be back for more if its free till he can find a better offer that doesnt respect marriage either.
2007-07-04 07:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to determine if you are old enough to have sex at all. Judging by how well you spell I think you need to wait until you are older. Second He probably has not called because he was just trying to get some sex from you and that was all he wanted. He might not even be worth your time. Be patient and let time take it's course. Wait until you are older.
2007-07-04 07:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by swinger_girl_kelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say, but sometimes when guys get 'it' then they feel there is nothing else so they move on.
I can't say for sure that is what he is doing, but it sounds like it.
Be very careful who you give yourself to in that way, it is the most intimate part of you and should never be given away quickly or lightly and without much thought.
Good luck!
2007-07-04 07:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on sweetie, and the next time try to see what happens BEFORE sex... so you dont fall on too busy people...
2007-07-04 08:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually after sex the guy goes to sleep.
2007-07-04 07:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
3 days is definitely enough time to wait for him to call you. You need to ask him whats up
2007-07-04 07:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving it some more time give it a couple days and if he still doesn't call then call him and talk about whats going on
2007-07-04 07:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r crazy to have it first
and GOD is with u dont worry it happens coz mostly man r intrested to do for first time and forgetting it
and its like wired thing in man
2007-07-04 08:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear as a female we have the most powerful tool right between our legs to get things done,go places,have the right man at your side... you have to be very picky who you invite in...we have the power to start and stop wars........{so to speak]
2007-07-04 07:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋