Ok. I just need some opinions.
What age do u think is appropriate to have a bf?
to kiss him/her?
to makeout?
to have sex?
thanks
2007-07-04
07:30:42
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Thank you to everyone. I am 14 and had a bf, but i brpke up with him. I am going in to high school. I don't even think about having sex until i'm 18 or older...hoping til I'm 20. I just wasn't sure what age about kissing and making out. Thanks
2007-07-04
07:38:47 ·
update #1
Bobcatt, I just wanted opinions, bot critisism.
I am NOT thinking about sex, I am too young.
2007-07-04
08:14:15 ·
update #2
I know when i do decide to have intercourse ( 18+), I will know the risks. thats why u can get ur partner tested and have condoms
2007-07-04
08:16:20 ·
update #3
Chef " at 17 you'll be ready "
2007-07-11 21:27:09
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answered by Anonymous
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I just want to praise you on the fact that you want to wait to have sex. Do you know how often (now that I am older) you hear guys b*t*h about how most of the girls are all used up before marriage, and the only way to get a virgin anymore is to be with a young girl...which is a totally disgusting thought. Anyway, the longer you wait, the more you will be worth when you feel that you have found that special someone to be with. If I could go back in time and knew then what I know now...it is so true that one thing leads to another. But, it will only go as far as you let it. I would say 14 for bf. 15 for kiss. 16 for making out....and stop right there until you know that you are very seriously in love! Love ya girl! Good luck! Sounds like you are a pretty bright individual!
2007-07-12 14:22:01
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answered by blondie 2
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It depends on what you've been through and how you were brought up, but I think that to have a SERIOUS boyfriend 16+...
To Kiss: 12+
To makeout: 16+
To have sex: til you marry...
I never thought this was important and I was brought up in a family where everyone does what they want, we don't usually talk about sex or personal things like that...but anyway, I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and I kind of regret it. I wish I would have waited until I marry...I am not married yet, but I have had a couple of sexual partners already and it just feels unreal next time you do it...it doesn't feel 'pure', it just feels good and fun...and AWESOME when you love the person you're making love with...but.....what if that's not the person you're marrying?
You should be careful and try to save yourself for the one you marry, you will feel better about yourself.
Take care. I hope my answers help.
2007-07-12 14:14:02
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answered by Diana 5
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Everyone is different, but usually 15-16 is a normal age to have a bf/gf ... and you're going to kiss your bf/gf, so that is that same time ... give it a couple weeks before you have makeout sessions ... then sex is whenever you feel comfortable, that is the part the either makes or breaks a relationship, if one or both of you are not ready yet.
2007-07-04 14:36:02
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answered by danny23 3
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I think probably 13 + would be appropriate for a bf. I think you could kiss them like a little at probably 14. I would suggest not to make out with anyone, because it usually leads to sex, because I think no one should have sex until their married, because right before you get married they test you, and your fiance for AIDS, and that would be better than contracting it from some stranger, plus you know that once you get AIDS it kills you slowly over time, so pretty much your life is miserable and ruined.
2007-07-12 14:26:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Each person and each culture is different. As a rule of thumb, I'd say early middle school is a good time to have the first boyfriend and kiss. The make out should wait until late middle school or early high school, and sex no earlier than driving or prom.
2007-07-04 14:34:52
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answered by jhc0810 1
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an appropriate age to have a boyfriend and to kiss is 15 to make out is 16 up and to have sex is until she gets married
2007-07-12 09:36:57
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answered by adnerb 2
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To kiss any age, To makeout 16, sex when your maried
2007-07-12 13:43:02
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answered by dan 2
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there are no real rules to this question a person i believe can have a bf/gf if they can be mature enough to handle the demands of such a relationship which would entail premarital sex and all that.
if you feel that you are both mature wnough to handle the relationship then all is well, but if its only you who is mature enough then move on and get another partner, and if you do decide to do the deed, do it not because he wants to but because you feel ready for such an act and you decided to do it on your own free choice.
2007-07-12 14:26:08
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answered by ravg 1
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1. Well, 13 or 14 for purly experimental stuff.
2. Any really
3. 14-16
4. Marriage.
although the last one, is a good idea, and that's wha tI recommend, but if you want another answer...23 with a decent job.
2007-07-04 14:36:27
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answered by matthaumschild 5
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You are way too young to be having sex. I know that a lot of people your age are, but think about what could happen if and when you do. You could not only start getting STDs but also you could get pregnant. Think about if you have a kid now what that would do to your future.
2007-07-12 10:58:51
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answered by tink 1
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