My other half does not want a girlfriend but does want someone to spend time with, do the do with occasionally and doesn't want to see other people - isn't that having a girlfriend but without saying I want a girlfriend.
Oh boy I'm confused
2007-07-04 05:51:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Continue to see him if you want but don't put your faith in this man for the long term, it sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it. He obviously wants to keep his options open so i suggest you do the same.
2007-07-04 11:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by colgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants the pleasures and benefits of having an exclusive girlfriend, however, fears the negative long term effects. One may be that sometime in the future, you two have been together for a while, but you leave him, or cheat on him, or something. The pain of love loss is much more greater than the pain of loss. He doesn't want the hurt to be magnified, and so, he fears deep-rooted commitment, but wants to be with you. Try and persuade him. Have him think otherwise. Make his fears frivolous. If you can get him to let go of his fears of long-term relationships, he'll be all yours...officially that is.
2007-07-04 05:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Niko? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people get hurt from the past and have problums trusting and committing to someone new . for fear of getting hurt again . been there done that . but you must remember no two peopple are alike . just be his friend and if it's ment to work out it will . if not remain friends . friends last a life time . boyfriends don't
2007-07-04 05:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not fear of commitment, it's men being men.
A "friends with beinifits" relationship leaves the guy open to not paying for thing, buying gifts, being nice all the time, and can still flirt/hook up with other girls. But still be guarenteed to get some action whenever he wants it.
Be careful.
2007-07-04 05:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by pink-spider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment ANY man makes a serious commitment to ANY woman...she'll NEVER let him back out of it!
A woman can always change her mind, but that courtesy isn't necessarily extended to a male!
2007-07-04 05:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by argytunes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a massive fear for commitment until the right person came and swept me off my feet
2007-07-04 05:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sonell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with friends. you dont need a girlfriend to spend time with. or get a friend that's a girl and go shopping or something.
2007-07-04 05:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by On-a-Boy-Fast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to do his own do and get lost.
you can do so much better.
Don't be confused, he should be able to afford a call girl and not bug any normal person to service his sexual needs.
you are not confused but he sure as heck is... what is real and what is fantasy.......
What a creepazola!!!!!
clean house my dear and rid yourself of this dud......
2007-07-04 05:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants a friend. he may on to someone else or later make more of a commitment to you. if this is not acceptable to you, find someone else. if you ok with this. carry on.
2007-07-04 05:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by heavymetalbitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your in Love Your Can sometimes get confused but when you know its actully 'the one' your overcome that fear :) x
2007-07-04 05:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋