It happens when lonely and when stressed.I think its because of the fatherly love i have missed.It also happens most of the time when i think about a boy who has ever caressed me.Its horrible and destroying my relationship with men.
2007-07-04 04:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by edel m 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
jesus one word about masterbation and the god squad are out...
LISTEN: Masterbation is NOT wrong...I do it when I am lonely.
I do it when Im stressed and cant get to sleep...I do it when Im on my period and I do in front of my husband!! and My dad wasn't around but guess what self love has nothing to do with missing out on fatherly love...woman masterbate regardless if farthers are around or not...
Now on to your second point:
if your saying you feel that you cannot be initmate with a man and only masterbate then thats more of a problem becuase you may have initmcy issues...and you feel safer masterbating...
have you tried to incorporate your self love with your man?? Lots of men love it..
If your saying that you cannot go to work or eat or do normal things without self love before hand then that could also be something...
You should talk about with some one close..or if your that worried see your GP.
There is nothing wrong with masterbation as long as you can incorporate it into your relationships and daily routine...I am not sure what else you mean by it's affecting your relationships with men..??.please feel free to email me if you wish about this...otherwise try to acknowledge that its a natural normal womanly thing to do and you need to see that...its not a bad thing and you do not need to feel guilty...all woman regardless of parents or no parents around masterbate at some point..single and married woman do as well.. Good luck.
2007-07-04 05:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by What's the point? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation can occur when people are lonely and stressed. Normally it is a fairly harmless act that does not harm anyone and it is difficult to believe that it is affecting your relationships with men. Usually relationships reduce the need to masturbate, if they include sexual intimacy, unless the intimacy is not mutually satisfying. If it is not satisfying for you, maybe you should just tell the man or show him what would be stimulating to you. Anyone worth being with would want to comply because they would want you to have as an enjoyable experience as himself. If that is not the case, look elsewhere, you haven't met the right person.
2007-07-04 05:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by cavassi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, understand that both the females and males of many species of primate (of which, human beings are one) masturbate. Both psychologists, and psychiatrists regard it as normal human behaviour. Go to www.askemilyanything.com or enter: "FEMALE MASTURBATION" at the Wikipedia, or Google websites. Since the vast majority of women can't experience an orgasm, without clitoral stimulation, during intercourse, they either have to teach their men what they like, stimulate themselves manually, or with a vibrator, or miss out. Find a boy, and teach him! Until then, get a vibrator, like "THE RABBIT", or enjoy what you are doing quite naturally. Some women find that different sexual positions enable them to stimulate their clitoris, yet still enable freedom of penetration by their partner. Experiment! Rid yourself of the guilt which was programmed into you at a young age. Become a modern, sexually liberated woman. (ALWAYS PRACTISE SAFE SEX WITH OTHERS!!!).
2007-07-04 06:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, you acknowledge it as sin and tell yourself you are going to stop!!! Tell yourself you are God's child and you know he has a plan for your life!! This is a big waste of your time. Try deciding you will be creative in what ever medium you choose. Drawing is an easy one to start with because you only need a pen, pencil and paper. Try using your mind to focus on beautiful scenery especially water. You will soon be settling in on some drawing subjects that you prefer. Some people prefer faces, cartoons, still life's, a certain animal like horses or dogs. You can gain great pleasure from drawing. It matters little whether it is stick people or masterpieces...enjoy!!!
2007-07-04 05:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Your guilt is unfounded. Masturbation is normal very, very normal. Once considered something only boys and men did...but guess what ...women in healthy sexual relationships do it too. It's a moment when the only person you have to pleasure is yourself ...so relax and enjoy it.
2007-07-04 05:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlet 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking more than one question? Try talking to a counsellor.
2007-07-04 06:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
What the hell are you talking about?
2007-07-04 05:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by freekin 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
wat r u talkin about. no offense or anything
2007-07-04 05:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋