my ex want me back?

Question

my ex came yesterday that he want me back.he apologisedthat he was sorry for everything.i appected his apology.then he said he want us back again.i told him i don't know if want dis again.after all the sadness n bitterness he brought to me .
dip inside me i know i still love him very..very much.i saw it in his eyes that he still love me .whot suprises me is that all dis months we were apart i still love him, pls i need everybody n anybody advice.

Answer 1

Me PERSONALLY, I don't date ex's. They are an EX for a reason. Maybe his apology sounded good, maybe he looked it, hell I dunno.. whatever the reason, just stop and think for a minute. Can you see yourself back with this person? Can you go back to where you were b4 the breakup? Will you honestly be able to forgive AND forget. Because in order to be civil, you have to pretty much forget or else you'll be hanging that same old cloud over his head and that's not cool.

Whatever you decide, good luck to you!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You have established that 1) you are not sure you want this relationship again because of the sadness and bitterness. It is good that you recognize that the relationship had some heavy problems. 2) You still love your ex This is to be expected. Just because people break up, the feelings that you have can hang around for years and years. I would suggest the following - Meet with your ex. Let him know that you still do care deeply for him, but that there were issues in your relationship that hurt you and you don't want to experience these issues again. Perhaps giving each other a little space might be good. If you still want to go out and see him, let him know but make sure that BOTH OF YOU understand the rules. (You may want to see others, he may want to see others, etc) If he really loves you, he will consider what went wrong and try to clean up his act. By the same token, make sure that he is honest about things you may have done. (two way street) Take it slow. If you love each other and recognize your relationship has some challenges and you want to work through them, establish that with each other and try it again. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

I got back with my ex after 3 months apart and its def been the right descision!! If u still love him then just go for it! Life is too short to hang around. Just make sure its what u both want 100% and that u talk it through and make sure the old differences dont come back again. Loads of luck to u and ur ex xxxxx

Answer 5

It is OK to take him back...but you need to start from the beginning. It sounds like there were some rough times between you. Just tell him that you want to start back slowly and see how things go. If he loves you than he will understand.

Answer 6

i have been thru this ...
i wud suggest u to loosen up a bit.stop thinking abt this...
get to know ppl .forget u ever had an ex.live fresh n wait til u find sumone who cares fr u.when u find tht sumone who cares fr u...then decide whom u wud choose ur ex or this person.
its nt always the old feeling tht wins...its the stronger feeling tht wins...
I chose the person who cared fr me more thn my ex who hurt me n nvr bothered to xplain himself evn whn he came back to me.
im nw happy n know im in much better arms...
:)
get yurself a choice first n then decide....

Answer 7

Question you need a satisfactory answer to. . . "Why the hell did it take him so long to come back to you?"

Months, as in plural, denotes at least 60 days -- why would it take so long for him to realize that he lost someone very important.

Is he coming back to you out of love or out of convenience or both?

You NEED the real answer to this question.

Answer 8

im going through the same thing right now, but look at it this way, if its meant to be, it will happen....but also, he is your ex for a reason....and a month isnt enough to learn his lesson and change his ways.... its totally up to you what you want to do at this point.