last year i came home to find gal in the house with my mom. mom introduced this gal tome and said that she is my cousin after explaining a long chain of relatives i don't even know. the gal is stunning, she certainly does have some thing for me. the whole cousin thing is not sinking in in both of us. she does some of the some erotic things to pull me over. to mention few.
she doesnot close the door when she takes a bath whe she has come top sleep over.,
she insisted on taking a sweet from my mouth rather than the one from my hand.
she seats directly facing me on the sofa with her legs apart. and lots more. is been a year and i think i can't take it anymore.
what do you think? iam 24 she is 22
2007-07-04 03:19:49 · 32 answers · asked by kau la poo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are not blood cousins at all , i only got know her lats year both of us as adults.
2007-07-04 03:30:01 · update #1
Go for it ...
2007-07-04 03:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Given that there is actually little or no blood link even between first cousins (marriage between first cousins is legal in the UK and in every other European country as well as 50% of US states), I;d suggest treating her just like anyone else.... Doc Shell and others above have provided you with answers that are ill-informed and based on irrelevent modern mores - the fact is that historically a MAJORITY of marrigaes were between cousins - and there is a statistical GUARANTEE that EVERYONE in the world, oncluding Doc Shell, has a first cousin marriage in the last three generations of their ancestry. Are we all mutants??? No... so there you go....
And Kathryn... have you READ the Bible (on which the Christian faith is founded)??? Just about everyone in there is the progeny of at least a first cousin relationship - so that's a plain stupid response....
2007-07-04 03:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta do what you think you should do. If this girl is as stunning as you say she is then go for it. Get a piece of paper and write down all the pros and cons of a relationship with your cousin. try to find out how she feels about you or play her at her own game and do erotic things to her. A little harmless flirting never hurt anyone, right? ; )
2007-07-04 03:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it sounds to me like she's pulling you in. If you are feeling her just the same go for it. You say there's no blood in the long chain of genes, so I guess it would be fine.
HOWEVER, your mother introduced her as your cousin, so in Mom's eyes, you are related. I don't know how if she would take that well. Weigh your pros & cons! Good Luck!
2007-07-04 03:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Elle.Morena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm. Non-blood related cousins are not considered as an incestual-type relationship. No harm could come of such a relationship, even if it involves having children.
2007-07-04 03:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gona hafta get a pen n paper n do out the family tree! if its through a long chain of relatives then are you sure ur even related, she mite be called ur cousin when realistically she mightnt be. i prob shouldnt be sayn this but my grandparents were connected through their family, but it was a case of his great aunt was her great great granny or somthing that made them not directly related. (that sounds awful doesnt it! i hope no one nos me on this!). if its closely related id keep well, well away. shes probably doing this to see how hot n bothered she can get you while thinkin, were related so im not gona hafta follow this through!
2007-07-04 03:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by ophelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only sick and twisted, it's immoral. Besides, if she slips up and gets pregnant, you guys put a baby at risk of all kinds of complications because you guys are cousins. Gesh, get some willpower and stop thinking with your crotch and think with the right head!!! She should be ashamed of herself for doing what she is doing.
2007-07-04 03:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you have chemistry, but not love chemistry, because your cousins.
I don't know about this if it's like 1st or 2nd cousins definetly NO! but anywhere beyond that I don't know it's iffy, but its your call. I just wouldn't go around mentioning it to too many people, but ya it definetly seems like she is into or maybe just looking for some action and trying to tease you?
2007-07-04 03:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to realize bro that this is your cousin..and its just not right..sure i know im sure she's pretty..but you have to put a stop to it..its not like its socially acceptable you know..what would your parents and family think? ive had been surprised myself by some of my pretty cousins,but you know what? they are family..i cannot go there..so that being said bud..you cant either..this is just af fantasy you need not entertain.
2007-07-04 03:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by raul d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm well as u myt know in alot of cultures its perfectly normal for cousins to get married esp in da middle east and asia, and if she feels da same way bout u, den i dnt see y u 2 cnt get together as long as ur happy,
2007-07-04 03:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by lilstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a blood relative i wouldnt go there if i were you it could cause alot of family arguments if u are only related through marriage then theres nothing stopping you it is sick if you are blood related though
2007-07-04 03:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋