and I know that he likes me as more than a friend... but I don't know whether to go back out with him... bearing in mind that he has a new girlfreind but he said that he'll dump her for me... then I will just feel like I'm tearing them apart... I don't know what to do... any help would be nice...
2007-07-04 03:10:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup, find your own meat to chew on! He is your ex for a reason?Right? You must've broke up with him because of something you didn't like...hey? so why go back to him then?
You are right,you will only tear them apart and the only reason why he is telling you that he will dump his girlfriend is because he wants a back up plan for when things does not work between him and the new girl.
You deserve better than that. so don't go back there again.
He is only gonna break your heart again
2007-07-04 03:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Yollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think why you split up in the first place, if you finished him was it because of something he did/said etc - would things be the same again.
If it was him who ended the relationship do you know why??
if he isn't happy with his new girlfriend maybe he could finish her anyway plus this would show his committment to making it work with you - then you could but take things slowly and see what develops.
i always said i would never return to any of my ex's but got back with an old flame last year and life is bliss. we've both grown up and get on better than before now
2007-07-04 10:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by sassychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait on the sidelines. Why did you break up in the first place? Did he dump you so he could be with her? If so, forget him because this will happen over and over again. Go find a boyfriend that will love and respect you. One that you can have fun with and a real relationship. You deserve it.
2007-07-04 10:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to feel your heart. you know him well by heart.whatever reason that caused your break-up, it could be a ground for your decision whether to accept him for the second time or not. weigh things carefully.if he deserves to be given a chance, why not give it to him?just try to see the advantage and disadvantage of whatever decision you'll be making.. personally, i sometimes believe in "love is sweeter the second time around." so, good luck.. i hope this will help..
2007-07-04 10:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by harej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you realli feel like it could work then i say go for it
But if the reason you split up could like still be a problem
then i say move on an find sumone new.
2007-07-04 10:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can dump his present girlfriend then he can just as easily dump you x just hold your head up and tell him no x he doesnt sound a very nice person if he can play with peoples emotions x
2007-07-04 11:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by orac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is serious, he better dump her new girlfriend first because obviously he doesnt love her, then you can take it from there and see if you can make it tick again.
2007-07-04 10:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kayjay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go back? If you werent getting what you wanted before what makes you think you can get what you want now? After all you did break it off.
2007-07-04 10:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to him - saves u the time of taking care of your looks etc, just wallow back onto his couch and vegitate for the rest of your life..... - just because he's got a new gf I bet!!! -
2007-07-04 10:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not hard to know if you love someone. if you really love him, which i would not say according your letter, then be with him and stop thinking of the girl.
Dear, if you really loved him, you would not ask this question. you would be with him.
2007-07-04 10:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋