before me and my boyfriend got back together he went with someone who i know.
he slept round here house for the weekend till monday on what his mum told me
He said that the only reason why he went round her is to get away from his dad and he thought i was with someone else
he told me that she was crap in bed had bad breath and didnt have not boobs and she looked like her brother and he is ugly
but he said atleast she was loyal when he was drunk.also he found out that she sent him a valentines card when we was living together
he is 29 and i am 21 i know h was on the rebound but i really dont understand why he had sex with her he said he thought of me but i really dont know
so really i kicked him out put bad thing about him on the internet because he was hiting me at one stage
we back together now and it completly driving me nut or do you think i should speak to him about it ?sorry about my grammer and please tell me straight but dont mock me for my grammer
2007-07-04 01:53:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you think he could be telling the truth
2007-07-04 01:54:10 · update #1
we was together for 4 yrs week broke up for 3 weeks then got back together
2007-07-04 01:55:51 · update #2
when we broke up he went with that woman and he wanted me back
2007-07-04 02:00:43 · update #3
in them tree weeks i didnt contact him
2007-07-04 02:07:58 · update #4
forget about him and find someone who isn't a dick
2007-07-04 01:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by demonmish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you werent together it was his right to see whoever he pleased and now unfortunately you will both have to live with that. I personally think if someone is in love, even if they split up they wont want to be with anyone else, at least not until they have gotten over the person they have broken up with. If i was you i would make one of two decisions, you either continue your relationship with him and forget about the fact he slept with someone else as all this will do is cause arguements and bitterness, or i would walk away and find someone new. He hit you afterall, and no man that hits a woman deserves to be with anyone-he will only do this again. Only you know how much you love him, and only you know what is more important-your love for this man or your pride and sanity(walking away from an abusive partner will leave you with both of these still in tact-if you stay with him he will continue to treat you badly and will no doubt be violent towards you again)
2007-07-04 02:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by peroxide.pixie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting so much because you have placed all your cards on him, girl. Did you say you have been with him for 4yrs? So that goes to say you were 17 then and he cud be your first boyfriend. Now you are 21, and a beautiful woman, you should move out and move on with your life.
No man is worth another thought if he hits his girl. Having sex with someone does not mean that he/she loves one another. And doesnt make it better when he is bedding someone and thinking of you.
I have a cousin who used to bed other girls and yet claimed to his girlfriend then that after that, he feels that he loved her more. I told her to leave him before he leaves her! Eventually, he left her and married someone else. Get the drift?
Dont lose sleep over this one. Get on with your life and find someone much much more your worth. I wish you well.
2007-07-04 02:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dandelion 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, he will ask if you guys get back together. I would just tell him the truth. If he has a problem with that, then what was the point of breaking up if he wanted you all to himself? You guys were broken up, it's not like you cheated on him. Good luck
2016-05-17 23:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know he's bad news, just want confirmation from us, well here it is!
This guy is bad news! He has no respect for you, he hits you, he sleeps around (just because you've only found out this one time doesn't mean it's only been this once), he's selfish and untrustworthy.
He slept with this girl, then said all those nasty things about her to you, what do you think he said to her about you?
You really are worth more than this, it may not seem like it, but that will be because he has hit your self confidence with his antics, chuck him out and start enjoying life on your own, you're worth it!!
2007-07-04 01:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by pirate_princess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is feeding you CRAPP!! If he thought she was so ugly and her breath stunk, he wouldn't have slept with her. He's taking you for a ride. Let him know the rides over that your getting off. Find you someone else. THis guy is a cheater. Don't believe his excuses. Thats exactly what they are excuses for him to keep screwing around on you. MOVE ON.
Good lUck
Alabama
2007-07-04 02:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by James R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's out of order, sleeping with someone within 3 weeks is not on - let's be honest, you know whether it's a tiff or it's over altogether when you fall out....
Don't worry about your grammer lol, he shouldn't have told you, some secrets are best kept forever.
Get rid of him, hitting you? no no no. say bye bye assehole
Good luck. X
2007-07-04 02:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think he is telling you the truth why would he say all those terrible things about her and still sleep with her what makes you think he hasn't said that about you to some other girl "? it sounds to me that your boyfriend has a problem (its called can't keep it in his pants when you and him argue) you should really think about this besides if he keeps sleeping with other women he could give you a disease kick him to the curb and find yourself a real man
2007-07-04 02:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hit you in the past and jumped into bed with someone else as soon as you split up, you really don't want to be staying with this man.
He will hit you again, I can guarantee it, and you deserve someone better.
2007-07-04 01:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Emma W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be with someone better, he sleeps around and has hit you and yet you take him back! He is a man whore and you should get rid. Find someone who will respect you!
2007-07-04 02:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay with him, you have to let it go. Put it out of your mind completely and go forward and have a good life.
If you can't, do him a favor and let him go. Neither of you deserve the rehashing.
2007-07-04 02:09:09 · answer #11 · answered by sandy_uf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋