i had homosexual relationship a year ago..but i am not a gay.. what should i do to give up that relationship?

Question

i am male. i didn't have female friends so far.. On watching lesbian movies, i would love to have homosexual relationship...what do i should to give up homosexual relationship? i think homosexual relationship is a sin..

Answer 1

I was lesbian at one point. But I believe in Jesus christ and i turned to him. I had a talk with him.

Its not easy to give up a homosexual relationship. But It depends on the person.

For me it wasnt that hard. But who knows. It depends on the person.

Homosexual is a sin. And i believe that people who are LGBT do go to hell. But I became straight a few months ago. So I am happy. If you need anymore help just let me know Heres my e-mail address.

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Answer 2

I'm sorry that you feel this way about homosexual relationships but most likely the only thing you can do is refrain from watching homoerotic porn or anything of that nature, and attempt to see the positives of a heterosexual relationship. Concentrate on the beauty of marriage, having children, finding your soul mate and the like.Occupy your time with other things, such as taking up a hobby or helping others (volunteering at a soup kitchen , going to a nursing home and helping out there, etc.). Other than filling up your time so that there is none left in which you can use to think about your true sexual preference there is nothing you can do. Honestly I recommend that you just come to terms with your sexuality and let it be, but this is a good alternative if you feel this is what you truly want to do.

Answer 3

Feeling attracted by the same sex during the first years of discovering your sexuality is very common, so please don't feel guilty about this. When you reach your twenties, if these feelings continue, then you should consider the possibility of being bisexual or gay. Again, there's nothing wrong with it, you are a God's creature just like anyone else. I personally know many true Christians who love God and are gay; it was hard time for them to accept themselves as they were, but they finally discovered that they didn't need to choose between God and self-acceptance.
Just a last advice: being a gay doesn't necessarily mean being promiscuous! Respect your body and your soul and try to have a sound relationship with someone who really loves you.
Good luck! :)

Answer 4

If you believe it to be sinful (heck, it ain't even natural, or else "Male" and "Female" would be two different species), then by all means, turn around.

And quit watching porn, it isn't doing you any good. You believe homosexuality to be a sin, yet you allow the desire to be placed in your head. Not a good idea.

I'm not trying to put you down, my friend. I'm just saying that the lesbian movies aren't helping. Get rid of any of these movies that you own/rented. Break out the Bible. If you've got any Christian friends who can help, then call 'em up.

Now, as for your entertainment, go buy a Wii or something. Oooh! Get an original PlayStation, those are really cheap online!

But out of all of these things, the best thing you could do (but not the only thing you should do) is to take thsi to God and rely on Him for strength to overcome this.

And if I may give you one last point of advice, there is a line repeated in the Song of Songs three times. "Do not awaken love until the time is right." I at first interpreted this to mean don't have sex until you're married. But I then learned that it meant that we should not pursue love recklessly. Let it develop at its own pace. Love is a beast when handled improperly. Do no awaken love until the time is right.

Answer 5

im not gay but i think homosexuality is not a sin. dont let other people get in your way , maybe the reason you cant seem to get out of this relationship is because.............gasp! you are gay. or maybe even bisexual. just be yourself. if you trust yourself and you know you are indeed not gay then good for you for experimenting and just let the other person know that this wasnt your thing. they should understand. if your unsure about yourself then just keep exploring until you find your true identity. dont let the media or peer pressure or whatever's giving you these "sin" ideas stop you from being happy.

Answer 6

"Homosexual" and "gay" might be adjectives that you don't like. Any man who is capable of engaging in a sexual relationship with another man is called those adjectives. The fact that you have this relationship....look, if I don't want to be called "thief" I must not steal...you get it? It's just the label that comes with it that you don't like. I suggest you go to a therapist, NOT because is wrong but because you are confused about your sexuality and seem to be having a hard time accepting it. My very own opinion is that as long as you are a good person those labels don't matter at all. I wish you good luck as this must be hard for you.

edit: by the way, look at all those hypocrites who are ready to crucify you. Aren't religious people supposed to be loving? All they ever do is just the opposite...bunch of fanatics that in the name of god hate everybody...do not listen to them!

Answer 7

Yes, give up having those relationships. Hang out with non homosexual people, dont watch anything homosexual, stay away from places where they have this lifestyle as normal. Yes its a sin but you can repent. Dont live in that lifestyle. Being around all that temptation is not good. Everyone has desires for sin but anything desire can be brushed away in your mind. Do something else that is better for you. Ask for forgiveness and turn away from the lifestyle and dont do it anymore. Pray for God to release you from those feelings and start a different life with a different purpose. Follow Jesus. It isnt difficult. Throw away all porn, throw away anything about astrology, mother earth, spiritual world and just start a new life in Jesus.

Answer 8

Ok,, homosexual relationship = gay relationship.... are you following.... This means homosexual = Gay = You.

It doesn't matter if you think it's a sin, you're doing it and liking it which means You ARE Gay.

Is that simple enough for him?

Answer 9

You need to find someone like a guidence counselor or trusted adult to talk to. The last thing you need is a bunch of narrow minded bigots telling you what to do and condemning you. Sorry sweetie, but I really don't think it's a choice- but I don't think it's a sin either. But I would find someone with whom you can talk about your feelings.
;) Channa

Answer 10

If your gay then your gay. Nothing wrong with it no reason to try and change something that isn't possible to change. However, if you are determined to change, do it for yourself, not jesus. And take the responsibilty to do it on your own instead of leaving it up to him to help you. The voice in your head that is giving you strength to do what you want, is you.