when we txt each other all he talks about is sex this and sex that. wats wrong?!?!?!?
2007-07-03 18:06:53 · 29 answers · asked by Kaitlin Marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally, i find that behavior unattractive in a man. all women want to feel wanted and desired, but not for just sex. for companionship, friendship, conversation, fun, playfullness, for all of it. not just sex. i would text him and ask him straight out. "is sex all your after? be honest with me please" then see if his reaction and text's change. then you will know. then what you want to do from there is your decision. at least either way if you go for it anyways, you know what he's after. if you want more and he doesn't want to give more, then you can walk away now before putting anymore investment into it.
2007-07-03 18:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say he is very interested in sex. Have you tried to change the subject? If so just don't respond to anything he says that is related to sex, just say something else, like how was your day, or what have you been doing? If he keeps up with the sex thing then just say I don't want to talk about this. It kind of offends me. If that's does not work just stop talking to him, he may have some issues that he needs to work out. good luck. :)
2007-07-04 01:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his hormones are raging.....lol well guy's brains are different as far as certain control centers. Guys tend to be overly horny i guess you can say. I personally think that he may be figuring out ways to make you hot, because some ppl like it when their other says dirty things to them. On the other hand if it literally is just sex he talks about and it bothers you then you need a new bf...maybe you should just tell him you dont like it and make sure you give him a reason cuz us guys like to know what for...we respond better to that
2007-07-04 01:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before boys mature, they go through a stage where all they want is sex. After a while when he starts to mature, he'll see there's more than sex in life that's important. So just take it as it goes and wait until he matures
2007-07-04 01:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he seen you in person or are you just textmates? If he's seen you in person than I think that's disrespectful and if you are not interested in having sex with him you should stop leading him on. If you are just textmates then I'm sure he is just trying to get lucky. Must be an ugly dude, only ugly dudes are desperate like that. lose him.
2007-07-04 01:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by adam z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably getting turned on and doing other things while you play his game. Do not indulge him unless, you are in a serious relationship and you love him. Depends how long you know him (2yrs or more). If you just started dating him recently he is a LOSER who wants a cheap thrill and doesn't respect you. I would dump him and movem on to a nicer guy.
2007-07-04 01:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Gatikabela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've given him the impression that that's alright with you. If you don't like it, ask him to stop and set some boundaries. That will let you see if he is only interested in sex or not.
2007-07-04 01:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is making sexual jokes...then that is normal, guys joke about that alot. But if sex is just the topic he always brings up..you might be careful about what his intentions are, there are alot of guys who just want sex out there.
2007-07-04 01:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a horn-dog.
I've got guys like that who I talk to. They're my friends, but sometimes they get a little out of hand.
2007-07-04 01:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by Meghan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn´t you know men love sex more than anything?
2007-07-04 01:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by nikkita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋