there is this woman i work with who technically still has a boy friend but they are having thier problems and she has said that she wants to move on. she has shown a little interst in me. this is a woman im highly interetsedted in. sooo i went to the floral shop and arranged for flowers to be sent to work on thursday during her shift. just to get her attention.
i ordered a dozen pink roses (because pink is the color of admeration) with a card that said "just to get your attention & show my intentions. if your intersted call me if not just look at this as a friendly gesture. with great admiration, my name"
now im wondering if maybe i orderd these inappropriatley. i mean she does still have a boy friend.
what do you guys think? serious answerd only please.
2007-07-03 17:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by K2K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
impressive, she'll love that, what really impressed me was the way you said it.
2007-07-03 17:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by broz215 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, this I definitely don't think was in any way inappropriate. I mean you explained yourself on the card. If she is having trouble already with this current boy friend of hers, chances are they probably would have broken up in the near future without you entering the picture. Plus, this is impressive, that you like a woman and took a step to show your feelings, unlike many men...If anything she'll be happy. And even if this doesn't go as you planned, you have nothing to lose, right? Thus, don't be nervous about this.
2007-07-03 17:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by jumba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it was a bad idea because you made a point that if it were to much to take it as friendly gesture and that was good. Now it is up to her to figure out what to do about her boyfriend and what to do about you. You should let her know that you can't get to invovled until the coast is clear but she needs to let you know exactly how she feels about you. I know this may sound a little to forward but try this. Take her out somewhere nice but not like dating nice, and ask her how she feels about you as a friend and as a person of interest. Once you get your answer you will know how to approach the situation and how to react then. Also let her know how you've been feeling and that if she wants to be with her boyfriend then thats fine as long as the confrontation of you and him don't interfer at your work place.
2007-07-03 18:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by THE TRUTH 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a good gesture, but you probably should have waited until she called it quits with her current boyfriend. You also don't want to find yourself being the re-bound guy either - which could be the case if she calls it off with her boyfriend. I guess you will now just have to see how everything turns out.
2007-07-03 17:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is having problems and wants to move on, then I say you did the right thing. You probaly just gave her hope knowing that there is a good replacement waiting in the wings.
2007-07-03 17:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mike S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a dozen roses will catch her attention..... although wondering now is rather mote. The deed is done. I think it a bit extreme.
2007-07-03 17:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
till the boyfriend is out of her life you might.want. to wait if she didnt want him he wouldnt still be with her would he women like attion from men wait till he.s no longer with her then make your move. in my opion?
2007-07-03 17:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really like it. Class act.
2007-07-03 17:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Morley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋