Okay so there is this girl that i have liked for a really long time, she asked out my best friend and he said yes. They broke up and i told her how i felt, and she did not say anything to me about it until i sarted to go out with this other girl. About four days into my new relationship she told me she loved me, i was really caught off guard. I broke up with my girl to take time to figure thins out. A few days latter the girl i like is going out with someone else. She is sending mix messges what do i do?
2007-07-03 17:48:42 · 11 answers · asked by Callie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. She is using you. If she breaks up with the latest boyfriend and comes back to you. Tell her that you just want to be friends and that you have moved on and are looking for someone new that isn't going to say one then and then before you can even get your mind made up go out with someone else. You better off with out her.
2007-07-03 17:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself...do you really like her? Start there. For her to bust out with the big "L" and you're not even together...that for me would raise a red flag. Is it you she loves or the attention you could give her what she really wants? She may be unsure as well...just sit her down and tell her how you feel and how her actions are making you feel; watch and listen to her response and make a call from there. But ultimately it comes down to how you feel--honesty with self before confronting her.
2007-07-04 00:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by JB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only wanted you when she couldn't have you. Stay away from this kind of girl-she is evil! Sounds like you need to call up your last girl and apologize. She may not want to talk to you again, but an apology is still in order. Trust me, these kind of girls are not what you want, and it's pretty obvious that her "I love you" went right out the window.
2007-07-04 00:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems pretty stright forward to me, you get back with your original gf and I don't care what you have to do say you were confused and made a mistake and would do anything to make it up to her if she will just give you one more chance, and you don't act on anything the other girl says anymore got it?! If you want a girlfriend and to make her happy don't let your eyes move around make sure they stay on your girlfriend and make sure she knows that...
Best of luck..
-Moose
2007-07-04 00:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone because she is lost and probably dosent know what she wants the only reason she probably said she loved you is to get back at your friend to make him feel sorry for the brake up.OR SHE COULD JUST BE A MANEATER.
2007-07-04 00:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by C.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i felt that the first girl is using u to get back her boyfriend.
you should go for the girl which accepted your proposal.
because she likes you and you should respect her feelings.
no need to go for the first irl as she does not seems to have interest in you .
2007-07-04 01:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by mohd a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her. Date girls you like. Don't break up with them again. Better yet, don't go steady for a while.
It takes two to tango. You don't have two.
2007-07-04 00:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. she's not ready for a relationship with you if she's dating someone else
2007-07-04 00:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lizz S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes using your love for her to make your life miserable forget about her
2007-07-04 00:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by halo_1_rocks117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was on the rebound and she didn't know what she wanted. The victim was you.
2007-07-04 00:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by TJ V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋